55!

Please take a moment to praise the Lord with me!  Yesterday Youthmark played host to 55 Youth Leaders at The Old Spaghetti Factory at Southcenter! This was a great turnout with high energy.  A couple of the highlights in my eyes:

  • Seeing Youth Leaders whom I knew had no prior relationship hanging out, laughing, even exchanging business cards with the purpose of staying in touch!
  • Hearing the laughter in the room… seriously, it was so fun to watch and listen to the constant chatter and laughter during the lunch portion.  Laughter is often a healing agent God uses in the lives of His children.  I sense that some who were hurting, came away a little encouraged because of the laughter they experienced at his or her table!
  • Sharing my passions! Besides my desire to see churches partner with Youthmark (the obvious reason for the lunch), I desired to share these two passions (1): Youthmark wants to train students for the 51 weeks of life outside of the mission trip and (2) We, as Youth Pastors, need to set the example by being about our own Jerusalem with our own peers and encourage the students to be the best missionaries we have in the U.S.!

As a result, please pray for these three specific requests:

1. That Youth Leaders would seriously consider partnering with Youthmark (and that I would do a good job of following up with these churches and answering the questions they have).

2. That these Youth Leaders would pray for the Harvest Worker they named (and whom they committed to pray for).

3. That registrations would continue to come in for our last Lunch in Portland on Dec. 3.  I’d love to see another large crowd for that lunch!

Thanks for your prayers and for your interest in the Aaby Family and Youthmark!

Grace,
Brian

Today is the Day!

Two big events are happening today!  Though I’m very excited about the first, the Youth Leader lunch for the Puget Sound Youth Leaders (an opportunity for me to preview Youthmark Mission Ventures to nearly 60 folk), the second is a MUCH BIGGER event…

A very big HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my loverly Bride, Elisabeth! Woo-hoo!

Elisabeth is a blessing to many of you out there in the blogosphere (and beyond), she is a caring friend, a gifted writer, a comedian (seriously, have you read some of her posts?), and much more.  However, as much of a blessing she is to you, that pales by comparison to the blessing she is to her family!  The Lord is doing amazing things through this gal!  She is such a great Mom… she cares for, thinks about, prays for and shepherds our kids in ways that simply astonish me.  She is an example to the Mom’s around her!  She is so supportive of her husband (hey, that’s me!).  I am so blessed by her loving care and encouragement. She is so supportive and frees me up to pursue the things I am good/gifted to do.  I know she prays for me, speak Truth to me and builds me up in the eyes of others!  She’s the best!

She is wonderful sister, daughter, in-law and Auntie!  Did you know that not only does she know all birthdays in the family (and those of her friends… and quite frankly many acquaintances), but for some freak of nature I think she has all of the ages, anniversaries and even telephone numbers memorized. Who does that? I digress.  She is simply an amazing family member to both her immediate and extended family.

Don’t hesitate to comment on this post about the blessing you see/experience in Elisabeth, or perhaps even better, go to her Facebook and say something, shoot her an email or give her a quick call!  She’ll be blessed!

Happy Birthday Elisabeth!  I love you more and more each day.

And… you’re not old!

Grace,
Brian

Top Five Tuesday: Things I’m Looking Forward To This Week!

Thought I’d give you a quick glimpse at my week with this edition of “Top 5 Tuesday.”  In the case you didn’t read yesterday’s post, it is far more important than this one, please scroll down, or just click here and do that first.  I am in great need of your help with that one!

Besides the disciplining myself over the next few weeks to really go for it on the completion of the writing projects, I thought I’d give you a glimpse at the things that have me pretty excited.  The criteria… as I look at my iCal, these are the things that perked some interest! Granted, some of these things are not actually on my iCal, but they showed up in my mind.

Without further ado, this list.

Five: Chillin’ on the Couch with Elisabeth (and time with the family).  Because I have had to travel a bit this fall, the time at night catching up with Elisabeth has been precious.  We are avid Survivor, The Office and Amazing Race fans.  We still have a few episodes to catch up on (at least for AR).  I cherish the down time with the family and look forward to at least an evening or two this week where I will get to wrestle with Will, cuddle with Audrey and play some checkers (iPhone) with Halle.

Four: Catch-up with old friends.  I have several scheduled coffees/appointments that will have me sitting (or on the phone) with the likes of Barry, Eric, Micah, Miki, and Derek to name a few!  I look forward to seeing/hearing what the Lord is doing in these lives.

Three: Hearts tournament! A tradition like none other… okay, a tradition line one other (because we do it twice a year).  The Hearts tournament.  This, the 18th annual (though I have only been playing for about the last 11) Tourney is with my good friend Frank.  We do one tourney up north (Marysville area) and one down south (Renton area).  This competition has seen anywhere from 16 to 36 men come together to compete to shoot the moon!  If you know how to count cards and want to take some points, don’t hesitate to contact me to get in the tourney on Saturday.

Two (tie): Breakfast with John and Becky.  Last year was a pretty interesting year, for the first time since college we actually had to choose a church to attend (rather than being hired by one).  Well, we ended falling “in like” with a church w/o a Senior Pastor.  Elisabeth and I both felt called to the church for a unique reason, we thought we may be used at that new church to serve as some sort of refuge to whomever the new Senior Pastor (and family may be).  Well, here we are about six weeks into the new Senior Pastors calling to our church.  We will be going out to breakfast with them this week and we look forward to developing that relationship and to see if what we thought we were called to do at Faith is in fact part of the reason we came?

Two (tie): Lunch with 45-50 Youth Leaders. This Thursday is my “back yard” Youth Leader lunch at the Old Spaghetti Factory at Southcenter (which happens to be “new).  I can’t believe that on my first draft I forgot to put this one in, though it was probably the primary thing I thought of when starting this list… it just slipped by.  Having done six other lunches and one to com in Portland, I have to tell you, this is the ONE that I am the most excited about, simply because I don’t have to travel for it and because so many of my good friends in ministry will be in attendance!

One: Elisabeth’s Birthday Dinner! Though not confirmed as to the “for sure” time/date, it is a tradition for the Aabys and the Huffmans to go out to dinner.  Brandon is the Youth Pastor at First EPC (where I once served as well) and his wife, Amanda, shares the same birthweek as Elisabeth.  Brandon and I made this discovery several years ago and have  taken that gals out to dinner at one of our favorite steak places every year since.  So, off to JaK’s we go once again.  This time to the Issaquah location.  Happy birthday on the 19th to my wonderful wife!

So, there’s a glimpse at my down time.  In order to take advantage of those special moments, I need your prayers for the disciplined times of writing.  Again, if you haven’t taken a “shift” will you go to my previous post and sign up for a day (or more) to pray for the writing?

Grace,

Brian

Covering the Writing!

With this post I want to “rally the troops”  Are you willing to be one of troops?  I hope so, please comment at the end!

I know that God delights in our prayers and I am hoping He will delight in your prayers on behalf of the writings for the training manuals, devotionals and foll0w-thru materials Youthmark will produce for the 2010 YMV’s.

One MAJOR area of emphasis we place on the training side of the mission trip is prayer.  We encourage each participant to have 20+ prayer partners.  Well, I’m looking for the same as I endeavor to get the majority of the writings completed for the 2010 YMV season in the next three weeks.  Will you cover a day (or more) in prayer?  There is no expectation as to what “covering” looks like, you make your prayer time what you want it to be for that day/those days.

storyFrom November 17-December 8, I plan to really “go for it” to get each of the below listed publications finished (they are all in various stages of completion).

  • Story: The Mission Prep Workbook. This is the training workbook for each participant, using Acts 6-13 as the guiding section of Scripture.
  • Partnerships.  This is a new publication for Youthmark, this is a complete guide to mission support (prayer and financial).
  • The Leaders Guide 2010. This notebook is the Youth Leaders Guide to all things Admin and Leadership for the 2010 YMV’s.

threebooksOn the Radar: As soon as each of the above are completed we turn our attention to RoadGrip, HomeBase and Merge for 2010.

How Can You Partner?

Will you sign up to be a primary prayer partner for any of the following days?  I will update the list as folk commit to praying.  In committing to pray for one (or more) of the days, I will do my best to shoot you a specific prayer request for that day (clueing you in on the specific project I am working on that day).  I have listed the weekend days as well because at times I will be writing, but primarily I will have the people signed up for these days praying for my time with my family.

You can “sign up” by either commenting on this post, shooting me a FB message or an email (brian{at}youthmark{dot}com). I will update the list of people with first names only.    When you comment on the blog I have access to your email address you listed to register a comment (so, no need to list your email in a comment).  Don’t hesitate to sign up for a day already taken, I want multiples!

I hope to get as many people covering the writing, as I believe through His Word and by His Spirit there is a mighty work of God in store for the participants! I want you to be a part of that process!

Prayer Coverings For Each Day:

Tuesday, Nov. 17: Aimee, Stephen

Wednesday, Nov. 18: Aimee, Stephen

Thursday, Nov. 19: Aimee, Stephen

Friday, Nov. 20: Micah & Rebecca, Stephen

Saturday, Nov. 21: Christie, Stephen

Sunday, Nov. 22: Michelle, Stephen

Monday, Nov. 23: Michelle, Stephen

Tuesday, Nov. 24: Michelle, Matt

Wednesday, Nov. 25: Brad

Thursday, Nov. 26 (Thanksgiving): Weston

Friday, Nov. 27: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Nov. 28: Christie

Sunday, Nov. 29: Wes

Monday, Nov. 30: Wes

Tuesday, Dec. 1: Ricky

Wednesday, Dec. 2: Brad

Thursday, Dec. 3: Ricky

Friday, Dec. 4: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Dec. 5: Maureen

Sunday, Dec. 6: Maureen, Rachel

Monday, Dec. 7: Gene, Rachel

Tuesday, Dec. 8: Gene, Rachel

I’ll keep updating as people sign up.  Don’t hesitate to sign up for more than one day.  I’ll shoot an email to you on the day(s) you signed up, or the evening before your date.

Grace,
Brian

WOMM Please!

WOMM: Word of Mouth Marketing… the best form of marketing!  Can you help spread the word?

DSC02172Over the last 4 weeks I have “toured” to six different cities to do preview meals for Youthmark Mission Ventures.

The Strategy: Invite Youth Pastors to a lunch that Youthmark pays for so that we have the opportunity to share about our YMV’s.

SeattleLunchI still have two lunches to come, both in our own backyard.  On Thursday, November 19, Youthmark will be hosting a lunch for Youth Pastors/Directors at the Tukwila Old Spaghetti Factory (new one just south of Southcenter mall near Kohls).  Then on Thursday, December 3 we will be at the Portland Old Spaghetti Factory (the one on the water).

PortlandLunchIf you are a Youth Pastor in the greater Western WA or Western OR region, we’d love to have you attend the meals.  If you attend a church that has a Youth Pastor/Director, please invite them to visit www.youthmark.com and click on the Free Lunch banner on the bottom of the homepage.

I look forward to sharing our hopes, vision and strategy to see students trained for the 51-weeks outside of the mission trip!  Of course we use the mission trip as a catalyst for that change  and motivation for the training, but with your prayers and word-of-mouth marketing perhaps we’ll ultimately see teens become the best missionaries we have here in the US!

Speaking of that, did you know that teens need it modeled as well?  Let’s model effective missional living by sharing in word and deed!

Thanks for spreading the word to the Youth Pastors you know!

Grace,
Brian

A WAY more important post than mine!

Hey Friends!

As some of you know, last year Youthmark was a sponsor of and tried to get the word out for Charity:Water.  Well, we are once again (the Aabys and Youthmark) trying to spread the word.

Please go to Elisabeth’s blog, RIGHT NOW, seriously, RIGHT NOW… Click HERE if you don’t know how to get there.  She has something way more important to say than anything you can read here right now!

Go.

Grace,
Brian

Encouragement from the Young

Got a very nice Facebook message yesterday…

It was in an instant message:

“Thank you very much…”

to which I replied… “thank you very much?”

“ya ever since i did the youthmark books i learned more about God and Jesus and now instead of almost falling asleep in church i stay awake and im closer than ever to God”  He went on, “and just reading the Merge and reading the bible it has helped a lot”

You’re welcome Sam!

Praise God for Sam and his encouragement, may many others be found faithful to reading and responding to His word.

Grace,
Brian

Not All Is Bigger In Texas

Coming home from a quick three day trip to TX.  This was a fantastic trip, and what they say  about everything being bigger in Texas is not true.  Case in point, look at this picture:

Me, contemplating why my Venti is only 20 oz in Texas.

My Venti Iced Coffee is the exact same size as my Venti in Seattle.   Another example; the number of people in Houston who came to my preview meal was 8 (for a city with about 6 million people), whereas in Glenwood Springs, CO, a town of 10,000, we had  9 people!  So, not all is bigger.

However, I will tell you that the ministry was AWESOME in TX.  I really enjoyed our preview meals (18 today in Dallas).  I felt like the sharing times were very rich and that all of the participants came away encouraged in their own ministry to each of our “Jerusalems.”

One story specifically I’ll tell you about is in Dallas today with Michelle, our server at Buca Di Beppo.  She overheard much of the presentation (as she faithfully took care of drink refills and plate clearing).  Afterwards, one of the YP’s and I were talking and she interrupted to compliment us on the day and something she overheard.  Long-story-short, we were able to really engage her, pray for her and hear her struggles (very tough family stuff).  It was such a blessing to tag-team with a brother I didn’t know two hours before and witness to/pray with Michelle!  Please pray for her and her family.

Great times, but so thankful to be home with the family and praying that the connections made in TX will be BIGGER than we ever could expect!

Grace,

Brian

 

 

SoCal SoGood!

I was down in Southern California Tuesday morning thru Thursday evening doing two preview meals for Youthmark Mission Ventures.  As the title states, SoCal was really great!  I was pleased to have 30ish at the San Marcos Old Spaghetti Factory on Wednesday for lunch.  These Youth Leaders came to hear about YMV’s.  On Thursday I welcomed 10 folk to the table at Marie Calendars in Valencia (North LA, near Magic Mountain).

Both meals were interactive and encouraging.  It’s fun to see Youth Leaders interact and glean from one another!

I’m sure I’ll post more about the meals, but please do pray that connections were made in such a way that these Youth Leaders will be serious in praying about the opportunity we set before them!  Praying for the right connections for the 2010 YMV’s and beyond!

Grace,
Brian

The Needed Sunday

I’m coming off of a terrific weekend, and in particular a Sunday that was very needed.

My brother-in-law flew up from Southern California to spend the weekend with us.  He and I have been in the same Fantasy Basketball league for the last several years; this year we decided to do a live draft and get everyone together.  Scott made the trip up to spend time with the family here and get to meet (in person) all the others in the league.

We had a great time together the whole time, but Sunday was the best and very needed for me.

It’s been a busy/hectic/stressful last couple weeks for me.  It seems like a lot of Youthmark stuff was all coming together and once and if I wanted to every waking minute could be spent doing Youthmark related projects. So, Scott’s visit couldn’t have come at a worse, or better time!  It forced me to take a break, relax and just be!  Sunday specifically was that forced break.

We started the day by picking up my Dad (Mom was out of town) and had my family and Scott go up to 67, for Breakfast.  Great grub and awesome atmosphere.  Got back in time for second service at church.  Came home for lunch and some relax time before heading over to another church to play basketball with all the guys from our fantasy league.   Because I’ve gotten in good physical shape (a shape other than “round”), I was able to play well (at least I had my stamina).

After hoops Scott and I came back to finish the prep work for dinner with all the guys back at my house.  Grilled up some steak and chicken and really enjoyed the fellowship with all the FBL guys!  After dinner we had the Fantasy League Draft and a lot of laughter!

I didn’t do a thing for Youthmark (okay, snuck in a couple quick emails that needed to be tended to, but never really had to think too much).  It was a wonderful break!

Oh wait, almost forgot, as I was getting ready for bed I saw on someone’s Tweet that U2 had a live feed of their LA concert on Youtube!  Elisabeth and I watched most of it online, we lost sleep, but oh boy, it was worth it!

Refreshing to get back at it today.  Please pray for a the upcoming lunches and that those who come to preview Youthmark Mission Ventures would see a great potential partner in Youthmark!

Grace,
Brian