You NEED to go to my wife’s blog right now (seriously, will you please)?
Read her latest post.
Be moved. I was/am.
Then do something.
Grace,
Brian
You NEED to go to my wife’s blog right now (seriously, will you please)?
Read her latest post.
Be moved. I was/am.
Then do something.
Grace,
Brian
This blog post is really a request for future blog posts, read below and see if you can help…
It has seemed the clock has been moving at a faster pace and that the calendar pages turn even quicker these days. I hate to use the overused word “busy” because it seems everyone uses it; so I’ll just say that my days have been filled and I’ve found little margin to do a lot of writing for the blog. That’s okay, this is not my number one priority. With that said, I love doing it, but there are times when I know the SMS post is going to require more of me than I can give at that time, thus, THE REQUEST…
Right now I have about seven different Student Ministry Stuff (SMS) Post titles ready to be written; however, most of them are subjects that I know will need a bit of development. My hope is that you can help me come up with even more subjects for the hopper (those waiting to be written). Right now I have subjects like: Youth Leaders and Campus Investment; Youth Pastors and How to Spend Your Working Hours; When Saying “Yes” is Saying “No” (and vice versa); The Rookie years of Youth Pastoring (age 20-24); The “Experienced” Years of Youth Pastoring (age 25-28); The Veteran Years of Youth Pastoring (Age 29+).
What are some other subjects you’d suggest I tackle in the weeks to come and/or which ones of the above would you most like to see me tackle?
Looking forward to finishing up a few major projects so that I can develop some of these SMS thoughts!
Grace,
Brian
I remember laughing the first time I saw a live Poker Tournament being televised on ESPN. I mean, c’mon, seriously, who would watch Poker on TV, isn’t that like watching paint-dry, or worse, viewing a bowling match?
Well, they had me at “the river card.” I don’t know why, but Texas Hold ‘Em had me hooked as I watched some guy with the last name of “Moneymaker” win millions of dollars… SIDENOTE: Chris Moneymaker is his real name.
Well, here we are, seven years after viewing my first ever “Main Event” and having seen many people go “All In” on TV, I am speaking this weekend where the retreat theme is “All In.” It’s a fantastic theme to build around. Jesus own words explain the theme well, “if anyone wants to come after me, he must deny himself, pick up his cross and follow me.” In other words: if we want to be followers of Jesus, we must go all in.”
In the post-apostolic age we read of and see many others (and know many more) who are all in for the Gospel. Are you?
What does it mean to be all in?
This weekend we’re going to explore that with the students from Lake Sawyer Christian.
I think Paul gives us a great hint at part of what it means to be all in; Romans 1:16 says, “I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes.” I believe it, am growing in boldness to proclaim it and try to live in light of it for His glory and so that others may know Him!
Going all in!
Grace,
Brian
You’ve heard of steak & eggs; Pork chops and applesauce and a myriad of other combos that at first don’t seem like they should go together, but in reality are great fits.
I have some unique food combos I really enjoy, like, Pepperoni Pizza with Tapatio Mexican hot sauce on it. Or the one that turns many heads, mustard on my french fries (I LOVE it)!
So, it’s Thursday, which means I typically post a “Three-For-Thursday” list. However, it is also getting to be late in the week and I have yet to post my normally early-in-the-week, “Student Ministry Stuff” (SMS) post. So here we go, another combo worth trying.
Today the Three-For-Thursday/SMS post is about three combos worth trying in Student Ministry.
Hope the combos I offered stir up some thoughts for you, one thing I can guarantee, these combos are WAY better than Orange Juice after brushing your teeth!
Grace,
Brian
A couple days ago I posted my goals for the three day weekend, because not all got accomplished–and that is okay, since I was aiming to get 50% of them done– I will make this update my post for the day. A new SMS should be written later today or early tomorrow.
I knew I wouldn’t get everything done, but did have quite the list of stuff I wanted to accomplish… throw in church, some family time, a little yard work and a bit of down time and the tasks did seem to grow larger. Here were the goals and how I fared.
So, when all is said and done, there were eight tasks listed, the goal was 50%. I’ll give myself a solid 56% (4.5 out of 8), since the 4Runner is not actually in the garage yet.
You’re welcome, I know you were dying to know how I did.
Grace,
Brian
Back in May I invited others to join me in the 100five50 Challenge; I know of about a dozen others who commented, texted, facebooked, emailed me or told me in person that they would join in. So, here we are, approximately 100 days after the start… how did you do?
I went back and re-read my post; one line that that stood out to me:
“So this year I start at about 220 and the goal this year is to get to and stay at about 200, but even this is just a loose goal, I just want to be in a good condition, regardless of the overall weight.“
I really like that quote, not by way of justifying my weight, but because I was able to accomplish that goal! I feel I am probably in the best condition of my adult life. Even though I was about 216 on the scale this morning, I am convinced that I simply need to change some of my eating disciplines in order for a little more weight to come off (I’d like to get to about 210), because my exercise discipline is going really well. I also wonder how much muscle weight I may have put on while losing some fat weight? I biked very aggressively over the last month (which dramatically increased my appetite as well).
Okay, so here are the final results…
100 Days
Memorial Day Weight (start): 222
Labor Day Weight (finish): 216
Five Days Per Week of Exercise (30 minutes of cardio minimum)
I was able to do that 10 of the 15 weeks (several other weeks had 3 or 4 days, two weeks in July had zero… traveling)
Because I was traveling there were days I could only go on a long walk, but my overall bike riding took me approximately:
June: 118 miles
July: 129 miles (including two weeks at the beginning with zero rides)
August: 190 miles (wow, I really did get aggressive..)
437 total.
50% of my normal carbs
Here is where I did not do great. I would guess that I cut carbs by about 25% overall… so, I know where I need to become more disciplined.
Ovearall, I feel great. I look forward to not being overly conscientious about it right now, though it has become so much more my lifestyle and not a “diet.” Maybe around Christmas I’ll create some other blitz month for anyone who wants to stay accountable to do together.
Thank you 100five5075, you’ve been good to me!
Grace,
Brian
I’ve quite the list of stuff that I’d like to accomplish over the long weekend… so, instead of feeling down if I don’t get them all done, I’m doing to be realistic… if I can get 50% of the following done then a celebratory dance you shall do… deal?
Update to come late Monday night or early Tuesday (after the weekend)…
Grace,
Brian
Yesterday marked the beginning of school for my two oldest. Halle and Audrey were off to school and our new routine started. The last couple weeks have been somewhat tough, we’ve sort of felt like a plane on the tarmac, waiting to take off and get to our destination.
We’re up-up and away… The beginning of the school year for Elisabeth means some new freedoms (both girls in school all day) and some new challenges (namely, Will being a tw0-year-old boy who loves to get into EVERYTHING). For me, the end of the 2010 Youthmark Mission Ventures and some downtime/vacation time in August followed by the quick-turnaround to focus on the next year YMV’s has made me look forward to this new routine.
Today, I look at three returning routines in our life and why they make the “Three-For-Thursday.”
Let the comfort of returning routines breed new life (and change) in each of us!
Grace,
Brian
Dear Parents of Teens,
I can’t pretend to speak for all Youth Leaders, but having been involved with Student Ministries for nearly two complete decades (16 years of which I was a Youth Pastor), I think I speak for most when I say our friendship, and our partnership (between parents and youth leaders) ought to be stronger. After all, we have something in common, we both love your kid!
My hope in writing this “open letter” is that I can lend my voice to what I hope can become a vibrant relationship in your local student ministry setting(s). I am of the firm belief that the student ministry landscape could change dramatically if parents and leaders prioritized relationship and partnership with one another. I’m not suggesting you become best friends with your son’s small group leader or that you look to take the Youth Pastor on your family vacation, but I will give you (the parent) some practical suggestions as to how to be proactive in this needed relationship.
Unfortunately many Youth Leaders (paid or volunteer) are intimidated by parents; it may be because so many youth leaders are young and figure they are perceived (deserved or undeserved) as being unwise, full of energy, flakey, exuberant and sometimes a threat to the parent/child relationship. The reality is, many young youth leaders are unwise, exuberant and the like, and just like your child needs a mentor, so do many most, of us. Even older youth leaders are often intimidated by parents, they don’t want to step on toes, get in the way or be perceived as trying to do something that is intended for the parent/child relationship. But, that’s our problem (as youth leaders), we need to get over these perceptions and do the work of relating to parents for the sake of the kids!
But, this letter is written to you, parent. So, if I may, I’d love to give you a few suggestions as to how this relationship may improve or get even stronger (because I do want to recognize, there are MANY great relationships out there too).
As parents begin to pray for, give to and ask of the current flock of youth leaders, I believe not only with the Lord be glorified, but we’ll see better discipleship take place. We’ll see lost students (and lost parents) be found as we see the church functioning as Christ instructed.
So parents I end with this… thank you for doing what you do and the efforts you make with your kids. Your job is often THE MOST thankless job in the world. I am going to pray for you more faithfully, thank you more frequently and seek your wisdom more often!
Grace,
Brian
Over the last week I was able to ride more aggressively than I have in a long time… but again, increase in the ol’ appetite, so no weight loss, but that’s okay, still feeling better and better…
Six rides totally 60 miles.
Weight: Remains around the 217-219 mark (depending on the time of day I weigh-in).
Still trying to cut the carbs, yet, my efforts get easily thwarted by wedding receptions, church picnics, back to school bbq’s and LOW will power.
One week to go in the 100five50, let’s make it the best week yet!
Grace,
Brian