Awkward.

What do you do with this?

Background statement:  Most guys are great about this, however, you do see the occasional sicko stand and do his business at the urinal, flush, zip and walk out into the general public (while of course grabbing the door handle) without having washed his hands.  Gross.  I want to confront these people and shower not just his hands but his entire body with hand sanitizer.

Todays dilemma and getting back to the original question of “what do you do with this.”

Man stands and the urinal, does his business, flushes, zips and goes immediately to the auto air-hand dryer, dries hands and leaves.

Hmmmm… not sure what I want to do to this man.

Grace,
Brian

What’s New in Thanks?

Very thankful for this gang!

The question that we are all answering today: “what are you thankful for?” is a great question to ask.  I hope it is one each of is giving much thought and also responding in praise and in actually giving thanks.  Of course my relationship with Jesus and my ever growing affection and love for my family always top the list!

I thought I’d throw a little twist to the question for my blog today… so take the time to comment if you’d like as I will below.

What are you thankful for this year that was not on your radar screen last year?

This question caused me to think even more… the question, worded differently could read, “what’s new in your life this year that you are thankful for?”  Or perhaps, “what are you now thankful for that you were not in the past?”  You see, I can think of several things for each of these different questions… such as new life, trials, etc.

2009 YMV's gave me much experience!

As for my answer... I’m very thankful for is the new knowledge I have and the learning curve I experienced in the last year withYouthmark.  It has been a wonderful, but trying year.  When James says, “consider it pure joy when you face various trials” I often want to mock that statement.  It is a very hard thing to do!  However, I am thankful for all the trials of 2009 (as well as all the great things). However, many of the trials are what have brought me newfound wisdom and experience.  I am thankful for these experiences that I think will make 2010 an even better year!

 

What about you?  What wasn’t on your radar screen last year that you are now thankful for today?

Happy Thanksgiving!

Grace,
Brian

How Much Do You Love the Feast?

Every year I look forward to the Holiday Feast that is Thanksgiving.  To be honest it is one of, if not the, favorite meal for me each year.  One of the reasons I like it the best probably has to do with the fact that I only have it once a year (though spread out over a 3-4 day stretch including leftovers).  I guess there is the chance I may order the Turkey Dinner at a restaurant, but for the most part, it is a one-time-per-year meal.

So, keeping with another tradition, I also like asking difficult “would you rather” questions.  So, today, we are going to see what part of the Thanksgiving Feast you could handle not just once a year, but everyday for a year!

Today I am thankful that I don’t actually have to do this and it is just a silly question I got to answer!

Happy Thanksgiving!  I look forward to several of you coming by tonight/tomorrow (and possibly Friday) to do another Thanksgiving participation blog!

Grace,
Brian

Tribute to Youth Pastors

I love ’em, because I was one.

Here is a pretty funny Youth Minister Song/Video (it’s got some pretty funny one-liners and certainly a few inside-jokes that all youth leaders and those who have worked with youth will get)…

Grace,
Brian

To Do Today

Sorry, been completely swamped the last few days, good things, just swamped.  So I present todays “To Do:”

Morning meeting at my house with a new friend, talking “relationships”… Check

Starbucks meeting with a Youth Pastor… Check (I showed, he didn’t, got caught in a meeting, he’s excused)

Lunch at home and take Audrey to school… Check

Meeting with Ben Buckley at different Starbucks… Check

Send 100 emails to Youth Pastors in Colorado Springs… Check (only another 100 to go).

Stop By Faith to ask Aaron a question… Check (he was busy, but did call me later, while on my ride and I asked question then)

Pick up Audrey from school… Check

Bike Ride 11.5 miles, then shower (that second part was very important)… Check

Text my Young Life guys… Check

Post on my Blog… CHECK!

After Young Life tonight I have more of a to do list, but that’ll do for now.

Thanks for checking in on my day, whether you wanted to or not:  Check!

Grace,
Brian

News and Notes…

Coming to the end of what has been one of the more busy weeks I can remember in quite-some-time.  Don’t have too much time to write, but have a couple things of note to pass on.

  • Youthmark.com has just gone live with a little redesign and totally updated Mission Venture information.  You can see that a new tab was created, Missions, to consolidate and highlight the YMV’s.  The blogs can now be found under that tab.  When you have the opportunity go there and check it out!
  • One of the major things we have been working on can be found on that site, the Youth Leader Meals being offered in 8 different cities to promote the Youthmark Mission Ventures.  In short, I’ll be heading to those places to host a lunch (and in one case, brunch) to meet Youth Leaders and share with them the vision/strategy of YMV.  Appreciate your prayers! If you know any Youth Director/Pastor types in those areas, encourage them to go to the site and register for the free meal!
  • Today I am putting the finishing touches on the presentation for EXPOSED.  This event takes place tomorrow at Highline Christian and is being put on by Family Academy.
  • My favorite Tweet I read yesterday was from Jeremy Johnson (a newer friend, great guy, does a lot of speaking).  His Tweet: When I die, the last thing I am going to say is “unquote.”
  • Have two different meetings today with guys I really respect and have played significant roles in my life.  Andy Heider and Chris Renzelman.
  • Based on the stats, it looked like yesterday’s post (here) was one of my most read ever.  Hope people are not just reading it, but that we’re doing it!

Have a great day!

Grace,
Brian

Calling on (or calling out?) All Youth Pastors

I have had a number of fantastic conversations with my friends in youth ministry lately. Quite often the subject matter has turned toward the pulpit and the type of messages we are hearing (or speaking).  Subsequently, I had an online conversation last night that really put me over the top in my desire to write this post.

The conversation went something like this:

Me: Tell me why you were somewhat critical of the speaker from the camp?  It seems like many students and even other youth pastors liked him from what I read on facebook.

Friend: Ask those people if this speaker ever once mentioned the Gospel (or the cross)?

This opened up a great dialog, we spoke for quite some time about our philosophies of preaching, Bible Clubs on campus, Christian media, etc.  It was truly a wonderful conversation!

I love his jealousy for the Gospel and the need for us (as ministries) to make the public proclamation of Christ from our pulpits/speaking venues.  But through this conversation I found myself getting more and more bothered.  I began to project my frustration I have felt in other conversations with other people onto this conversation last night.  I had bottled it up for too long, I was the 2 liter of Coke that had been dropped and shaken and it was time to pop the top…

Ahh, the relief of spilling over through a rant.

So often the guys/gals I find most jealous for the public, bold and clear proclamation of the Gospel from the pulpit–those who want speakers/preachers to really point toward Christ & the Cross through every message (which is the right thing to want, btw)–are the very same people who need to examine their own life to see if they are making private proclamations of the Gospel in one-on-one conversations.

I pray that I say this in all humility and with all sincerity (while looking in the mirror).  For years I hid behind the pulpit and preached at students to get out and share their faith.  I challenged the students to invite friends to their lives and begin to share the good news not just with their life, but with their words.  I attempted to always preach Christ crucified in every message I spoke (even from obscure OT passages).  But I didn’t talk much about my private evangelism, namely because it didn’t happen too much.  It was easy to preach, harder to do.

I found myself frustrated that students weren’t getting out of their holy huddles.  I saw youth group after youth group becoming 3-times-a-week gatherings for the saved, even though one or two of those meetings was geared toward the lost.  I saw and heard about parents bothered that churches weren’t offering enough for their kids–so then the Youth Pastors feel like they need to do more.

In doing more, are we forsaking the lost?

Ultimately, I want students to reproduce themselves on their own campus, clubs and in their community.  If I truly want that, I better be doing it myself.

Let’s stay jealous for the pulpit. Let’s call ourselves to a higher standard when preaching the Word and pointing toward the only way of Salvation.  But, let’s talk about it in many 4-5 minute conversations with others instead of just 45 minutes sermons at others.

Grace,
Brian

Weekend Highlights

Even though I woke up Thursday morning with a bit of a sore throat that would later turn in to more of a real sore throat, I wouldn’t let that ruin the weekend. It was a great weekend at the Aaby home.  Here are a few of the highlights.

Friday: Did some good prep work for the EXPOSED conference (btw, today is the deadline for early bird pricing). I had a great interview with a police officer who goes undercover online through MySpace and Facebook (I’ll talk about this at the conference). Took Halle to her soccer practice and Elisabeth and I caught up on a few shows we had on our DVR (we love the Amazing Race).

Saturday: Elisabeth did a few consignment sales as I spent the morning with the kids at home.  Then we did a family outing to Chipotle for lunch and then off to Halle’s Soccer game (where we discovered Will is a natural).  I multi-tasked and got some Youthmark postcards prepped for delivery (I’ll post about this mailing soon).  We got home in time to watch the UW/ND refs give the game back to Notre Dame.  Halle made her biking debut on the Soos Creek trail, she and I rode a little over 2 miles (which I was giddy to do because I hadn’t ridden in a couple days because of my sore throat). On Saturday night we were able to watch the second half of the Amazing Race premier from the previous week.

Sunday: The moment we’ve been waiting for for many, many months (but nearly as long as the long-term members of Faith Baptist). “A New Day At Faith” began yesterday.  The new Lead Pastor was installed at Faith.  I look forward to seeing what happens at Faith and the way God uses the leadership team with a new team member.  The morning was very festive, complete with donuts and coffee prior to the service (because people were arriving early for the “all church” service), extended time of worship through song (started 15 minutes prior to the service), a message from the heart from Pastor John (did some foundational vision casting, which very much included the idea of “change” so that we’re reaching the next generation) and a lunch in the courtyard after (which was fun for us to catch up with some friends who are checking out Faith).

After Church I was able to get back on my bike for my real ride around the Lake Youngs Reservoir (about 12 miles) and then another ride with Halle on the Soos Creek Trail.  We made a great connection with a neighbor (this has been a REAL answer to prayer, I have a burden to get to know our neighborhood). In the evening I started the major re-shifting to create an office space for Youthmark at our house.  Though I don’t really “office” at home, the piles were starting to add up and we found ourselves in need of some office space so that the piles have a place to be organized!

As I reflect is was a fairly uneventful weekend (there wasn’t any “major” event), but it was a weekend that I cherished!  Praising God for time with my family and the tasks we were able to complete!

Grace,
Brian