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How Much Do You Love the Feast?

November 25, 2009

Every year I look forward to the Holiday Feast that is Thanksgiving.  To be honest it is one of, if not the, favorite meal for me each year.  One of the reasons I like it the best probably has to do with the fact that I only have it once a year (though spread out over a 3-4 day stretch including leftovers).  I guess there is the chance I may order the Turkey Dinner at a restaurant, but for the most part, it is a one-time-per-year meal.

So, keeping with another tradition, I also like asking difficult “would you rather” questions.  So, today, we are going to see what part of the Thanksgiving Feast you could handle not just once a year, but everyday for a year!

Today I am thankful that I don’t actually have to do this and it is just a silly question I got to answer!

Happy Thanksgiving!  I look forward to several of you coming by tonight/tomorrow (and possibly Friday) to do another Thanksgiving participation blog!

Grace,
Brian

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Top Five Tuesday: Thanksgiving

November 24, 2009

Somewhat predictable, yes, but c’mon, I knew you needed something to get past the mid-week doldrums (today is officially “midweek” because of the impending 4-day weekend).

Today I have the opportunity to rate the top five things about Thanksgiving.  The criteria for this one was pretty tough to come up with actually… questions like, do I include the Thanksgiving weekend or just the day? Do I allow something I did in the past to be in my current top five? etc.

Well, you’ll just have to wait and see the answers to those questions and more… without further ado, the list.

Five: The Leftovers. Ahh, Turkey will show up all weekend!  I love it! Of course the leftovers start with fixing a plate that looks very similar to what you had for your main meal, but by the time you are finishing your leftovers (for some of you this is in early December) you find Turkey showing up in soups, casseroles and pot-pies.

 

Some of us will resemble this this weekend!

Four: Sports on TV. Seeing as how we are a media-flooded society it seems there is ALWAYS some sporting event being shown live on TV.  However, I don’t pay attention to most of it.  On Thanksgiving Day and the weekend, I do.  C’mon, who, besides my friend Nathan, cares about the Detroit Lions?  Well, on Turkey Day I will.  I am not a Dallas Cowboy fan, but on Thanksgiving I’ll faithfully tune in and watch.  Beyond the football there are always great hoops games (college and NBA), college football games (including the toilet-bowl, otherwise known as “The Apple Cup”) and of course gymnastics!  Okay, not-s0-much on the last one… though Halle and Audrey would dig!

 

Three: Advent Time With The Family. A few years ago Elisabeth and I started a new family tradition by doing our own candlelight Advent time on the Sunday nights thru Advent.  So, this Sunday will kick that off.  I’m looking forward to seeing how Will reacts to the candle, the quiet and hearing the Christmas story.  Last year, one of the students I discipled through High School was hanging out with us and said that it was one of his best memories now!

 

What some malls look like in early October!

Two: The Kick-off to the Season.  I believe that Thanksgiving day marks the beginning of “The Holidays.”  I love Christmas music, Christmas lights, decorations and even peppermint-mochas, etc.  However, these things are meant to be celebrated, served, displayed/played and consumed (you figure out which noun goes with each verb) only from Thanksgiving to New Years Day.  Part of the purity of the season, to me, is the specific parameters of the season.  None of this Shopping Mall mentality of September 15 begins the season because one retailer starts selling Stocking ideas… let’s preserve the season by celebrating it only during the season (the one exception:  let’s celebrate Jesus at all times!)!

 

So, on Thanksgiving morning you’ll find me with a coffee beverage (probably with peppermint flavoring) in hand, swaying back and to the Christmas music blaring through our house as I begin the search for all of our Christmas decorations.  Welcome to the season!

One: The Meal.  If I were rating “complete meals” I would have to rate this one at the tops; though I love steak, I don’t know if the Turkey feast can be beat.  So, as I anticipate the day of thanks, I am certainly thankful for all of the above, but man-o-man, the Bird and the fixins certainly are something for which my glass is tipped in thanks.  Of course, there are a few exceptions to the rule of “the fixins” being the best.  I am not a “yam” guy and to be honest I can go without the cranberry sauce (okay, those of you who just cussed at me, repent, that was not necessary).  So yes, I love the meal, and the beauty of the 2009 meal, I am feeling great in terms of my health and weight, so I am not going to hold back, knowing that the bike-ride of Wednesday and of Friday will more than make up for the feast of Thursday!

What are some of your favorite things about this Holiday?

Come back tomorrow (Wednesday) for my special “Thanksgiving Blog Survey!”

And on Thursday I am dedicating the blog to “I am thankful” quotes… come back and participate!

Grace,
Brian

 

 

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Hearts Tourney in Review…

November 22, 2009

Finished third (out of 24 guys)!

This is my best finish in years, if not ever.  Good times.

My friend Byron (yes, the Byron you prayed for and his cancer from last summer) took the championship.  I am bitter because he gave me the queen twice in the finals.  (I’m not really bitter, just playing around).

Congrats Byron.  It was really a fun tournament.

Grace,
Brian

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Day of Rest, Friends, Reading, Writing, Family and Hearts!

November 21, 2009

A great Saturday agenda.

Enough said.

Grace,
Brian

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55!

November 20, 2009

Please take a moment to praise the Lord with me!  Yesterday Youthmark played host to 55 Youth Leaders at The Old Spaghetti Factory at Southcenter! This was a great turnout with high energy.  A couple of the highlights in my eyes:

  • Seeing Youth Leaders whom I knew had no prior relationship hanging out, laughing, even exchanging business cards with the purpose of staying in touch!
  • Hearing the laughter in the room… seriously, it was so fun to watch and listen to the constant chatter and laughter during the lunch portion.  Laughter is often a healing agent God uses in the lives of His children.  I sense that some who were hurting, came away a little encouraged because of the laughter they experienced at his or her table!
  • Sharing my passions! Besides my desire to see churches partner with Youthmark (the obvious reason for the lunch), I desired to share these two passions (1): Youthmark wants to train students for the 51 weeks of life outside of the mission trip and (2) We, as Youth Pastors, need to set the example by being about our own Jerusalem with our own peers and encourage the students to be the best missionaries we have in the U.S.!

As a result, please pray for these three specific requests:

1. That Youth Leaders would seriously consider partnering with Youthmark (and that I would do a good job of following up with these churches and answering the questions they have).

2. That these Youth Leaders would pray for the Harvest Worker they named (and whom they committed to pray for).

3. That registrations would continue to come in for our last Lunch in Portland on Dec. 3.  I’d love to see another large crowd for that lunch!

Thanks for your prayers and for your interest in the Aaby Family and Youthmark!

Grace,
Brian

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Today is the Day!

November 19, 2009

Two big events are happening today!  Though I’m very excited about the first, the Youth Leader lunch for the Puget Sound Youth Leaders (an opportunity for me to preview Youthmark Mission Ventures to nearly 60 folk), the second is a MUCH BIGGER event…

A very big HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my loverly Bride, Elisabeth! Woo-hoo!

Elisabeth is a blessing to many of you out there in the blogosphere (and beyond), she is a caring friend, a gifted writer, a comedian (seriously, have you read some of her posts?), and much more.  However, as much of a blessing she is to you, that pales by comparison to the blessing she is to her family!  The Lord is doing amazing things through this gal!  She is such a great Mom… she cares for, thinks about, prays for and shepherds our kids in ways that simply astonish me.  She is an example to the Mom’s around her!  She is so supportive of her husband (hey, that’s me!).  I am so blessed by her loving care and encouragement. She is so supportive and frees me up to pursue the things I am good/gifted to do.  I know she prays for me, speak Truth to me and builds me up in the eyes of others!  She’s the best!

She is wonderful sister, daughter, in-law and Auntie!  Did you know that not only does she know all birthdays in the family (and those of her friends… and quite frankly many acquaintances), but for some freak of nature I think she has all of the ages, anniversaries and even telephone numbers memorized. Who does that? I digress.  She is simply an amazing family member to both her immediate and extended family.

Don’t hesitate to comment on this post about the blessing you see/experience in Elisabeth, or perhaps even better, go to her Facebook and say something, shoot her an email or give her a quick call!  She’ll be blessed!

Happy Birthday Elisabeth!  I love you more and more each day.

And… you’re not old!

Grace,
Brian

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I call it, “The Passing of Wisdom”

November 18, 2009

Grace,

Brian

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Top Five Tuesday: Things I’m Looking Forward To This Week!

November 17, 2009

Thought I’d give you a quick glimpse at my week with this edition of “Top 5 Tuesday.”  In the case you didn’t read yesterday’s post, it is far more important than this one, please scroll down, or just click here and do that first.  I am in great need of your help with that one!

Besides the disciplining myself over the next few weeks to really go for it on the completion of the writing projects, I thought I’d give you a glimpse at the things that have me pretty excited.  The criteria… as I look at my iCal, these are the things that perked some interest! Granted, some of these things are not actually on my iCal, but they showed up in my mind.

Without further ado, this list.

Five: Chillin’ on the Couch with Elisabeth (and time with the family).  Because I have had to travel a bit this fall, the time at night catching up with Elisabeth has been precious.  We are avid Survivor, The Office and Amazing Race fans.  We still have a few episodes to catch up on (at least for AR).  I cherish the down time with the family and look forward to at least an evening or two this week where I will get to wrestle with Will, cuddle with Audrey and play some checkers (iPhone) with Halle.

Four: Catch-up with old friends.  I have several scheduled coffees/appointments that will have me sitting (or on the phone) with the likes of Barry, Eric, Micah, Miki, and Derek to name a few!  I look forward to seeing/hearing what the Lord is doing in these lives.

Three: Hearts tournament! A tradition like none other… okay, a tradition line one other (because we do it twice a year).  The Hearts tournament.  This, the 18th annual (though I have only been playing for about the last 11) Tourney is with my good friend Frank.  We do one tourney up north (Marysville area) and one down south (Renton area).  This competition has seen anywhere from 16 to 36 men come together to compete to shoot the moon!  If you know how to count cards and want to take some points, don’t hesitate to contact me to get in the tourney on Saturday.

Two (tie): Breakfast with John and Becky.  Last year was a pretty interesting year, for the first time since college we actually had to choose a church to attend (rather than being hired by one).  Well, we ended falling “in like” with a church w/o a Senior Pastor.  Elisabeth and I both felt called to the church for a unique reason, we thought we may be used at that new church to serve as some sort of refuge to whomever the new Senior Pastor (and family may be).  Well, here we are about six weeks into the new Senior Pastors calling to our church.  We will be going out to breakfast with them this week and we look forward to developing that relationship and to see if what we thought we were called to do at Faith is in fact part of the reason we came?

Two (tie): Lunch with 45-50 Youth Leaders. This Thursday is my “back yard” Youth Leader lunch at the Old Spaghetti Factory at Southcenter (which happens to be “new).  I can’t believe that on my first draft I forgot to put this one in, though it was probably the primary thing I thought of when starting this list… it just slipped by.  Having done six other lunches and one to com in Portland, I have to tell you, this is the ONE that I am the most excited about, simply because I don’t have to travel for it and because so many of my good friends in ministry will be in attendance!

One: Elisabeth’s Birthday Dinner! Though not confirmed as to the “for sure” time/date, it is a tradition for the Aabys and the Huffmans to go out to dinner.  Brandon is the Youth Pastor at First EPC (where I once served as well) and his wife, Amanda, shares the same birthweek as Elisabeth.  Brandon and I made this discovery several years ago and have  taken that gals out to dinner at one of our favorite steak places every year since.  So, off to JaK’s we go once again.  This time to the Issaquah location.  Happy birthday on the 19th to my wonderful wife!

So, there’s a glimpse at my down time.  In order to take advantage of those special moments, I need your prayers for the disciplined times of writing.  Again, if you haven’t taken a “shift” will you go to my previous post and sign up for a day (or more) to pray for the writing?

Grace,

Brian

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Covering the Writing!

November 16, 2009

With this post I want to “rally the troops”  Are you willing to be one of troops?  I hope so, please comment at the end!

I know that God delights in our prayers and I am hoping He will delight in your prayers on behalf of the writings for the training manuals, devotionals and foll0w-thru materials Youthmark will produce for the 2010 YMV’s.

One MAJOR area of emphasis we place on the training side of the mission trip is prayer.  We encourage each participant to have 20+ prayer partners.  Well, I’m looking for the same as I endeavor to get the majority of the writings completed for the 2010 YMV season in the next three weeks.  Will you cover a day (or more) in prayer?  There is no expectation as to what “covering” looks like, you make your prayer time what you want it to be for that day/those days.

storyFrom November 17-December 8, I plan to really “go for it” to get each of the below listed publications finished (they are all in various stages of completion).

  • Story: The Mission Prep Workbook. This is the training workbook for each participant, using Acts 6-13 as the guiding section of Scripture.
  • Partnerships.  This is a new publication for Youthmark, this is a complete guide to mission support (prayer and financial).
  • The Leaders Guide 2010. This notebook is the Youth Leaders Guide to all things Admin and Leadership for the 2010 YMV’s.

threebooksOn the Radar: As soon as each of the above are completed we turn our attention to RoadGrip, HomeBase and Merge for 2010.

How Can You Partner?

Will you sign up to be a primary prayer partner for any of the following days?  I will update the list as folk commit to praying.  In committing to pray for one (or more) of the days, I will do my best to shoot you a specific prayer request for that day (clueing you in on the specific project I am working on that day).  I have listed the weekend days as well because at times I will be writing, but primarily I will have the people signed up for these days praying for my time with my family.

You can “sign up” by either commenting on this post, shooting me a FB message or an email (brian{at}youthmark{dot}com). I will update the list of people with first names only.    When you comment on the blog I have access to your email address you listed to register a comment (so, no need to list your email in a comment).  Don’t hesitate to sign up for a day already taken, I want multiples!

I hope to get as many people covering the writing, as I believe through His Word and by His Spirit there is a mighty work of God in store for the participants! I want you to be a part of that process!

Prayer Coverings For Each Day:

Tuesday, Nov. 17: Aimee, Stephen

Wednesday, Nov. 18: Aimee, Stephen

Thursday, Nov. 19: Aimee, Stephen

Friday, Nov. 20: Micah & Rebecca, Stephen

Saturday, Nov. 21: Christie, Stephen

Sunday, Nov. 22: Michelle, Stephen

Monday, Nov. 23: Michelle, Stephen

Tuesday, Nov. 24: Michelle, Matt

Wednesday, Nov. 25: Brad

Thursday, Nov. 26 (Thanksgiving): Weston

Friday, Nov. 27: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Nov. 28: Christie

Sunday, Nov. 29: Wes

Monday, Nov. 30: Wes

Tuesday, Dec. 1: Ricky

Wednesday, Dec. 2: Brad

Thursday, Dec. 3: Ricky

Friday, Dec. 4: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Dec. 5: Maureen

Sunday, Dec. 6: Maureen

Monday, Dec. 7: Gene

Tuesday, Dec. 8: Gene

I’ll keep updating as people sign up.  Don’t hesitate to sign up for more than one day.  I’ll shoot an email to you on the day(s) you signed up, or the evening before your date.

Grace,
Brian

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I’m the MVP!

November 14, 2009

Just so you know… I’m an MVP!

MVP-Gold-CardsAlaska Airlines told me so!

If I am now the Most Valuable, why is it that they are encouraging me to get MVP “Gold” status?  Is there more valuable than “Most?”

Grace,

Brian