EDIT: Top 5 Sporting Events

As I noted from the get-go, I didn’t know if my original list of top 5’s would survive the week, today was supposed to be an internet related post, but decided on a different subject today!

For you non-sports fans, come back over the weekend, tomorrow will be my top 5 places I’ve been to with Elisabeth (romantic huh?).  So for today, my Top 5 sporting events I have attended seemed to be a fun one to think about.  So, the rule, I had to actually attend the game to have it qualify (in other words, not just see it on TV).

Without further ado, here is the list:

Honorable Mentions: 1992 Kentridge wins State Championship in basketball (the year after I graduated). With Elisabeth, M’s Win game 114 in 2001 to tie record (later to win 116) and Yankees/Red Sox, July 5, 2008.

images-2Five: Cubs vs. White Sox, Wrigley Field, May 18,  2007.  This set the stage for #4 a year later.  As a “build memories while we can” surprise (no worries, neither of us is dying, but you know what I mean… right?  My wife said this sounded too morbid). I surprised my Dad by giving him a trip to Chicago to take in a few stadiums together.  We were able to see Yanks/White Sox at US Cellular Field the day before and then after Wrigley’s day game we drove to Milwaukee for a night game between the Brewers and Twins.  What a day, what a three day trip.  Wrigley Field was incredible and my Dad and I had such a fun time interacting with the fans around.  Great game too as the Cubs come from behind for a 6-3 victory.

2473635320029177694Vramkj_thDSC00970Four: Red Sox vs. Twins, Fenway Park, July 7, 2008.  Not a big Red Sox fan, nor am I a Twins fans, however, I am a HUGE baseball and baseball park fan!  The experience of Fenway Park is worthy of a top 5 by itself, but to take it in with my dad and my brother created a great family memory.  Manny Ramirez, just weeks before being traded to the Dodgers wins it with a late-game single for the 1-0 victory.

DSC01099Three: Rainiers vs. ???, 2008. Don’t remember who the Tacoma Rainiers played, I do remembered we won the game, but want stands out to me about this game was that it was with my two daughters, it was a blast and we made it through all 9 innings!  Talk about a great daddy-daughter date!  A friend of mine (Brad) IM’d me early in the day stating he had a few extra tickets for a youth event he was doing that night.  Within  a few hours we were on the road where we enjoyed hot dogs, dip-n-dots and nine innings of baseball!  The girls cheered so loud with each home run!

imagesTwo: Seahawks vs. Packers, Monday Night Football 2006.  Attended this sn0w-bowl with the Heider boys and Marc Gronholz.  What a great game and how incredible that on a Monday Night Football game we had about 3-4 inches of snow fall during the game!  The Seahawks won the game 34-24!

images-1One: Game 4, Mariners vs. Yankees, October 1995. Without question, game 4 of the Mariners and Yankees in 1995 stands out as the best sporting event I have ever attended.  When Edgar Matinez came to the plate in a 6-6 tie in the 8th the crowd of over 57,000 had already been on their collective feet for most of the game.  Though we were not listening to it, I could in my mind hear Dave Niehaus screaming “Get out the rye bread and mustard grandma, it’s grand salami time” as Edgar crushed a grand slam en route to an 11-8 Mariner victory.

I was a Youth Pastor in Roseburg, OR at the time.  Elisabeth and I had just gotten engaged three weeks prior and she had flown up (from school in SoCal) to celebrate with our family and begin the wedding planning process.  My brother had tickets to all the playoff games and when he invited me to the game it was a difficult choice to make because we had come up to Seattle to celebrate with family but needed to get back to church by Sunday morning (small town, not good for the Youth Pastor to be gone so early in his job). So, when I saw that Elisabeth was willing to have me go (gotta love that fiancee) to the game and sacrifice sleep for us to get back to Roseburg (5.5 hours south), I jumped at the opportunity.

I remember after that home run turning and yelling something at my brother and he screamed back.  To this day, I have no idea what he said and I have no idea what he said, it was just that loud!

Okay, I need to stop, because I am beginning to re-think this list and am remembering games I attended that probably should be on this list… So, have you been to some good ones?  What is your best sporting event you have attended?  Has anyone else been to any of them that I have been to?

Grace,
Brian

The Top 5 Picks for the Flix

I have been doing a series this week I am calling, “Top Five.”  I have picked some random topics and created a list of my top 5 for each of these categories, go back and  read through them if you’re just getting started, there has even been some fun comments and opinions thrown out into the blogosphere.

Today we make the move to the big screen.  Of course, you need to understand most of the movies I have seen date back to before 2002, the year we had our first child.  Perhaps one day I’ll do an AC (after children) list (which would be sure to include several Disney/Pixar type films we have seen on DVD), but for today, most of this list will be BC (before Children in this case).

Once again, it would be nice to take the easy route and narrow the category to “Top 5 Comedies” or “Top 5 Chick Flix” (yes, I joke, we all know that there is no such thing as a good chick flick… ha).  However, I decided to challenge myself and just look at this the same way as I have other lists, top 5, period.

Without further ad0, I give you the list:

Honorable Mentions: Weekend at Bernies (one and two), The Left Behind Series and… Okay, I’m just kidding folks, just wanted to keep you on your toes.  I have never seen any of the Left Behind movies, and from what I hear, I should be quite thankful.

imagesFive: The Bourne Series.  I felt like I needed to have an action-adventure type film in my top five and the Jason Bourne (Robert Ludlum) series fits the bill as the type of films I really like in this genre.  Though not realistic, they don’t add sci-fi elements as so many of the new action-adventures do (haven’t seen a single comic-book series based films, literally, the only one is the original Superman).  I thought about a few of the Grisham books as a possible fifth place, but so many of them stray from the story line, and though Bourne does too, it seems to stick to the plot the best.

images-1Four: Fletch. There is probably not a film I could quote more lines from than Fletch.  It is a very silly film, but one that I watched over and over so many times in my late high school years that I can replay in my head even as I type.  Really, this is NOT a great film and as I have grown in my own maturity it should be embarrassing for me to put this in my top five (because, though not dirty, it has a few innuendos that should make me blush), but I’ll be honest, this movie just makes me laugh… a lot.

images-2Three: The Passion. This is a hard one to put in my top five and a hard one to leave out.  I have only seen the film twice, once in an advanced screening before the film was even done with final edits (at a National Network of Youth Ministries conference) and then with my Youth Group.  I wish I would have just seen it the one time.  The story is one that never gets old and is one I believe we need to keep on telling, but to see a depiction of Christ Crucified for my sin is something that I believe was meant for me to see one time–once for all.

images-3Two: Hoosiers.  This is one of a few films that has made me cry–not because it was sad, but tears of joy as the boys run the picket fence and Jimmy hits the shot!  Go Hickory!  For Gene Hackman this was his best film–he probably should have called it quits right then so he didn’t have to become the voice of Lowes commercials for the rest of his life.  Anytime this movie is on TNT or some other cable station I have a hard time turning it off!  Great story, free from smut and just a great feel good flick!

images-4One: Shawshank Redemption. My wife hates that this is on my list, let alone my top pick.  If she were to create a list of her most hated films, this may make the top 5.  Shawshank Redemption simply put, has a great (though morbid) story line, fantastic acting and for whatever reason it feels very real.  I know one reason my wife does not like this has to do with the portrayal of the “Christian” warden (who in the end does not behave very Christ-like).  I understand that the worlds view of many Christians is that they are “legalistic” hypocrites.  Unfortunately there are many out there who are exactly that.  So, my own hope (not so much as a reaction to this film, but more about life in general) is that I (and we) can present grace in such a way that does not invite people to a list of rules but a vibrant relationship with Jesus where we desire to live the life He has set as an example and share with our mouths about the kingdom to come!

Wow, after completing this list, I can honestly say this is the list I am the least passionate about.  I am realizing I am just not that big of a movie guy.  It was fun to think through some of them, but when all is said and done, a movie is rarely worth the big cost in terms of finances (really, $12 to see a film?), and I think even more rarely worth the time investment.

Some may get opinionated, please do, if you feel there is a better flick, let me know.  If you’d like to present your favorites or argue my top pick, let me hear it.  You’re probably wrong, but let me hear it.  Actually, you may be right and you may remind me of a film I had forgotten.

Grace,
Brian

The Restaurants–Top 5!

If you’re just joining us you’ve missed out on the first two exciting episodes of “Top 5,” but don’t fret, just page down and read the last two posts to find out my top 5 rural communities for missions and my top 5 tv shows.

Today, the task isn’t any easier, I have to decide on my top 5 restaurants.  Of course, once again, I could have made this a lot easier on myself by narrowing the subject to “Top 5 fast food joints” or “Top 5 fancy places” or something like that, but no, I made this darn-near impossible by just keeping it Top 5 Restaurants.

The way I’m choosing to do this was to look at it as if I had been outlawed and was sentenced to a year w/o going out and my sentence started after the next five nights… so where would I go?  This criteria helps me, because I would be tempted to just go out for steak each night, but instead I’m going to balance it out a little bit…

Oh, and the nice people who outlawed me are actually paying for my flights to go enjoy these places as well, so space is no issue either!  However, the location (as in city) cannot influence the choice, the restaurant is ranked for ambiance, but not for the surrounding activities in the city.

Without further ado, here is my list:

imagesFive: Gordon Biersch, Pacific Place, Seattle, WA. This is one of my local favorite places, and because it is local it makes my top five.  Great variety on the menu, plus I have a few great memories with my wife, family and dear friends.  It served as the “birth place” for my Lead Team this year for the YMV’s as well.  My favorite dish here has been the Fettucini with Sun Dried Tomatoes, but the burger takes a very close second.  I am especially fond a certain wheat beverage they serve to people over the age of 21 as well (with lemon).

images-1Four: In-N-Out Burger, California, Arizona and Nevada (and a specific one would be the one on Lyons Ave. in Santa Clarita).  Wow, a fast food place makes the list!  Well, it’s not any fast food place, simply the best fast food burger you can get.  I remember many a late-night burger run during college, this served as the ideal alternative to dorm food.  My favorite is a Double-Double with both regular and grilled onions, fries and a Strawberry Shake.

images-2Three: JaK’s Grill, U-District, West Seattle and Issaquah, WA.  JaK’s has three locations in Seattle, and it probably makes the list based on food/cost/location.  Because the food is so good, because the cost is pretty reasonable and because the three locations all offer different ambiance I bring this one into my third position.  We go here once-a-year for Elisabeth’s birthday.  Though I have had a better steak (at Ruth’s Chris), this steak compares, but comes with a large salad, bread, fresh steamed vegetables and your choice of starch (all for cheaper than just a steak at Ruth’s Chris).  My favorite is the large Sirloin with baked potato (all the fixin’s on the side) and salad with ranch on the side.

hnmmh_phototour17_sTwo: Marriott Breakfast Buffet, Kaanapali, Maui, Hawaii. By FAR the best breakfast I have had at a restaurant, and this is saying something because I love going out for breakfast.  We love going to 67 on the waterfront and it nearly makes the list, but it is dwarfed in comparing it to the breakfast we splurged for twice on our honeymoon (and once when we were speaking at a camp in Maui).  Way too many choices, short order chefs making any egg dish you can think of and THE BEST fresh squeezed orange juice I have ever had.  I even remember the passion Iced Tea my wife gets.  My favorite is to get a bunch of fruit, a few great danishes, lots of crisp bacon, breakfast potatoes (with onions) and have the chef make me a wonderful three-egg omelet with ham, onions, peppers, cheese and tomato.

images-3One: Casa Guadalajara, Old Town San Diego.  A San Diego must for me!  I love Old Town, but I love this restaurant even more.  This outdoor restaurant has the beautiful ambiance, great chips, great salsa and the best mexican food I have ever had.  San Diego is one of the best places to visit because the weather is so very consistent and this plays such a factor in grabbing a bite-to-eat at Casa Guadalajara!  Even if there is a line, there are women out front making and serving fresh tortillas to those waiting.  I have been able to treat a few friends to this place when on scouting trips for missions, they agree it is the best-mex they have ever had!  My favorite is the Chicken Fajitas with plenty of spice in each bite.

There are so many restaurants that are worthy of top 5, so many places I have had once that I just loved, but the second shot it ended up being not as good.  Those listed above I have been to more than once, in fact, each has had a minimum of at least three sittings, so, what about you?  Which places have you been to at least three times that make your list?  Which of mine should be bumped off because you disagree?  I want to hear your opinions!

Okay, done posting, now when is that plane coming to pick me up for my first restaurant?

Grace,
Brian

*** UPDATE ***

Totally forgot about Bojos Pizza in Idaho Springs, Colorado.  Best pizza I have ever had!  Definitely makes it around the 3 range!

Top 5 Rural Towns for Missions

This week I am doing a series of posts this week entitled, Top Fives.  Yesterday we looked at my Top 5 TV shows, we take a hard turn to the right today and move toward a ministry subject:  The Top Five Rural Mission Towns I have been able to serve in/with.

Once again, this is a hard one for me to even begin.  I needed to come up with some criteria because I have had so many different places and first need to decide if I am going to consider just the towns I have actually been in for the week or if I can count towns I have scouted and sent teams to.  If I were to do the first I would have a list of about 15-20 places to choose from, if I were to do the latter I would have a list of nearly 100.

What to do?

To make it easier on myself, I think I’m going to go with the places I have served, at a later date I am going to do a different list which will include any/all the places we have served as a church or through Youthmark.

In considering how to rank the top 5 places I have served with teams I am factoring in not just the community and the people in that community, but I will also factor in a few other things that helped me feel the way I did about that trip. Items such as weather, landscape, overall experience, ministry, etc. obviously played a factor in how I ended up feeling about the town.

Without further ado, here we go…

IMG_0976Honorable Mention: Anahola, HI, this really is a tough one to keep off the list, and also a really hard on to put on the list.  I learned way too much on this trip two weeks ago (July 23-Aug 2, 2009).  I posted about those learnings here.  However, the beauty, the friendships, the ministry, the potential dreams for future trips and yes, even the learning, make it impossible to keep this place off the list.  In fact, the dream to go back (and do things differently) propel me to put this place on the list.  83 for a high and 75 for a low plays a role in the decision too!

images-3Five: Skagway, AK, my first rural mission trip certainly ranks among the top five. I remember my first scout trip, flying in (via Alaska Air) to Juneau, spending time with my friend, JR at his church (Auke Bay Bible Church) and then heading out in JR’s Cessna 172 aircraft (4-seater).  The scout trip itself may have put this trip in the top 5.  We literally landed in Skagway with zero contacts.  We parked the aircraft, walked to town and picked up the phone book (this was before the internet was what it is today).

This June 1998 mission trip set the foundation for what Youthmark is today.  Because I believed that missions should be far more than just an experience we give students in the summer I wanted to make a splash with my first mission at First EPC of Renton.  So I created a “check-book” which became the discipleship guide for the students to do to qualify for the mission.  And because I believed we needed to do ministry in a small enough setting for each student/staff to feel part of the body (and needed to use his/her gift) we set a maximum number of 15 people for each team (so we served 5 Alaska communities that summer with 5 teams).

I learned so much that spring and summer and from that point further I used this strategy to disciple students and eventually other youth pastors.  Fun to look back on this week.  On top of all this, the ministry in Skagway was awesome, it was primarily to the LDS church, where we learned the power of testimony and sharing the “why” we have chosen the way of Christ.

images-4Tie for Four: (A) Rockaway Beach, OR, this trip in the year 2000 was the one I feel I really learned to let go and let others.  In each of the other towns to this point my wife and I were the leaders (and only leaders) on our specific team.  In Rockaway Beach we had a young intern, Wescott, with us. It was here in Rockaway that I really discovered a passion for mentorship and seeing others succeed in leadership.  The ministry setting in Rockaway and partnership with leaders such as Guy, Mike and Molly are things that I will always remember.

(B) Unity, OR, the trip to Unity in 1999 is the mission that stands out to me as the one that I felt my students really “got it” for the first time. By the end of the week it was the students who were pushing each other to share with their mouth, and not just their lives (behavior).  I felt the passion in the students to reach out to to their peers.  For a town of about 100-200 people, this place should have been one of the more impossible places to do ministry, instead it was the place my students really learned to do ministry.

images-1Three: Julian, CA, I will never forget my scout trip and meeting Pastor Rick Hill.  In the early winter in December of 2005, we sat at the Julian Pie Co. and I shared my hope and vision for what could happen in his very town in the summer of 2006.  He looked at me with a smile on his face and said, “this is a great vision, Brian, and I’m thankful that you will do a VBS, that’s a great avenue, just know that the Youth Outreach probably won’t work… we have never had more than six people at any youth event”  This simply excited me, whereas for Rick he just concentrated on our team coming as his VBS team.  On the first night at the football field we had about 10-12 (he was floored), by the end of the week we couldn’t keep Rick from smiling as he witnessed first-hand nearly 40 students on the field and another 25 coming back to his church to sing songs of praise!  Oh, the Pie alone may have given Julian at least the fifth spot!

imagesTwo: Mineral, WA, for about 27 years First EPC of Renton, traveled to Mineral, WA to put on a VBS for the church in this Mt. Rainier foothill.  For my six summers as the Youth Pastor (years 21-26) I was part of the tradition.  We used Mineral as our second mission (and really pushed this as a great entry level mission).  Eventually we needed to add Morton, WA as a town (because the Mineral team became too large).  The following year we added Onalaska, WA as a third town on the “Mt. Rainier Mission”  I loved serving in these towns, we added “youth outreach” to each of them while continuing to serve through a VBS in the morning.

images-2One:  Pine Valley, CA, when I scouted PV in January of 2006 I KNEW this was a place we needed to bring a team.  The only problem, the Pastor was not in town and though I tried calling several times I never got a reply. So, we scouted and found other places.  Well, our sign-ups grew and we needed another town to service the Cuyamaca Mt. Mission of 2007.  In April when I scouted again, I drove through Pine Valley again, and again, the Pastor was out of town, no answer, no returned call and we moved on to other communities, even landing one.  But for whatever reason I KNEW we were supposed to be in PV.  About one month before our Cuyamaca Mt. Mission trip the Pastor, Joe, returned my calls and we hit it off immediately.  Because there had been poor communication with the last town I had gotten we decided to pull the plug on that one and go to PV.  I was supposed to be taking my team on a return trip to Julian, but for whatever reason I KNEW I was supposed to go to Pine Valley.

In PV I grew so close to people in town (specifically the pastor and his family).  We introduced a discipleship program for the Christian teens while some of our team did a VBS in a neighboring Spanish speaking community.  Our evening outreach at the park was a huge success, seeing students come to Christ and others encouraged in their walk.  We had about 30 for the first few nights, by the end of the week 6@6 (what we called our outreach, 6 nights at 6 o’clock at the park) had about 60 students in attendance.

My friendship with this family continues and though I’d love to send a team back to PV it would be pointless; in 2008 I approached them to do this, and the Pastor (and his kids) said, “why, we are doing it on our own, we have a heart for our community.”  And they did, they ran an “at home” mission each of the last two summers!

Thanks for the trip down memory lane!  There are towns that are coming to mind right now that if I don’t stop I will be adding more ties… so, that’s it for now.

Any Rural communities (under 3000) that you feel Youthmark needs to serve in the future?

Perhaps you have been on one of these missions and you’d like to make an case for why that town is #1 on your list?  Give it to me!

Grace,
Brian

Top 5 TV Shows

If you read the blog from yesterday you know that today is the first of a series of “Top 5” lists I will be posting this week.

Today’s post, Top 5 TV shows is a very hard one to start with, in part because I simply don’t watch a ton of TV.  But in thinking about the actual list do I go top 5 of all time or top 5 current?  Can I make the list more specific by going top 5 comedy or top 5 drama?  Of course I could, but I won’t.  Part of the controversy with these lists (even in my own mind) will be to argue the length of the show (how many years it has been on), the strength of the show (were the early years better than the last years?), and the returnability of the show (meaning, could I return to this show after not seeing it for five years).

Because of these three areas I can already think of shows that I liked that are now off the list, for instance, Prison Break was one of my favorite shows, in fact, I think season one of Prison Break may have been my favorite TV season ever.  So, the strength eliminates this one, whereas a reality show I have followed is Survivor, but there is NO returanability with a reality show, so it is eliminated.

The way I went about making this list was to think of it in terms of DVD’s of the series… would I want the complete box set of this series after the show was off the air.  So, without further ado, here we go.

images-2Five: Cheers.  This is a surprise entry to me actually, as I thought about this show with the criteria that I set, I can honestly say this is one of the DVD series I would pick.  Cheers had a great run as a show, and even spun off a show, Frasier, that had an equally strong run.  This show had a couple classic openings that I still chuckle about just thinking about them.  And you gotta love Norm!

images-3Four: The Office.  No doubt this is the one show I expect will make a run up the charts over the years; however, it is still young and needs another year or two of consistent awkwardness to propel its way up.

images-4Three: 24. Jack Bauer could kick any other character’s back side, but as a whole there are still two shows that top it.  Two of the seasons of 24 (of the seven so far) have been a little weaker, whereas a couple seasons would compete with Prison Break for the best one year ever.

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Two: M*A*S*H.  This one may seem like an odd choice, but just last night I found myself watching back-to-back episodes on TV Land.  Hawkey, BJ, Colonel Potter and Radar were a few of my favorites on the show.

imagesOne: Seinfeld.  Jerry, George, Kramer and Elaine take the cake.  I find myself quoting way too many episodes to not put it in the number one slot!

I am sure there are a few shows I am missing and perhaps a comment or two will re-shape my thinking, I am not opposed to revising my list, but make your argument, convince me that I am wrong, I will make changes, but now it is up to you, the reader, to let me know if you agree, disagree or want some changes!

Grace,

Brian

Top Fives

Had a little idea brewing for the last few weeks and decided this was the week that I would make it happen.  Since I’m in the midst of some writing and gearing up for our last weeks of the 2009 YMV’s this week seemed to be a great time to do something fun that wouldn’t require too much thinking, but could produce some fun responses from you all.

By-the-way, please do feel free to respond to my top 5’s with some of your own thoughts, do you agree with my list, adamantly opposed?  Have some fun with it.

Here’s what I plan to do (it’s a mix of Aaby Family, Brian personal and Youthmark/Ministry stuff):

Monday: Top 5 TV shows

Tuesday: Top 5 Rural Mission Towns I have Been To

Wednesday: Top 5 Restaurants I’ve Been To

Thursday: Top 5 Movies

Friday: Top 5 Ministry Related Websites

Saturday: Top 5 Places I’ve been to with Elisabeth (or family)

This list is subject to change for sure, because I may want to replace one or two as I look at the list already, but for now we’ll plan on these ones…

Got any top 5-suggestions?

Grace,
Brian

Eye Doctor

It had been two years since I last saw the eye doctor; oops.  When I last saw her I purchased one years worth of contacts, only I am economical so I made them last two years.

My eye Doc didn’t approve of this move.

She reprimanded me, and then promptly gave me a few free samples, thus, I don’t need to get more contacts for at least a few more months!  Score!

So, with that in mind, check out my friend Brian’s comedy sketch about the eye doc, too much truth in this!

(He really isn’t my personal friend, but is my favorite comedian, his worst words he ever says is the d-word and h-word, and doesn’t EVER have sexual humor).

Hope you enjoyed, if you ever have the chance to see Brian Regan in person, do it!

Grace,
Brian

My Day in Tweets

Twitter (yes I am on there, though I don’t do it all that much) is a social networking website in which you are limited to 140 characters to update your status through your tweets.  So, though I didn’t tweet these, here is what my day would look like in tweets (though I’m not quite narcissistic enough to update everyone everyminute everyday.

Woke up, breakfast and some time with the family.

Off to meet with John Dakin, he texts saying he’s sick, change plans and go to Forza.

Work from Forza, good witnessing opportunity at Forza and then off to Costco.

Costco, skip the free samples, buy a backpack and some storage bins.

Lunch with Schlaud, yummmm, I love La Costa.  Good discussions, nice to catch up.

Home for some bike practice with Halle and off to do an oil change and hopefully a round of frisbee golf.

Posting this.

Signing off.

As usual signing “Grace, Brian”

Grace,
Brian

The Last Couple Weeks In Goofiness

I was scrolling through my iphoto library and looking at the last couple weeks of photos I have uploaded.  I know I can be a goofy guy, but it is very encouraging to know that I am not the only freak around; most of my family and many of my friends like to get a bit strange from time-to-time!

Enjoy!

Spider-Halle

Spider-Halle

Okay, not in the last two weeks, but still...

Okay, not in the last two weeks, but still…
Where does she get the goofiness?

Where does she get the goofiness?

That's my boy!

That's my boy!

Kirk, Brian and Aaron with the Youthmark

Kirk, Brian and Aaron with the Youthmark "Y"

Next time I see you, I may just have to catch you bustin’ some weirdness!

Grace,
Brian