A New Season

Elisabeth and I experienced what we are sure is a new season of blessing last night.  For the last few months our church has prepared to launch small groups (connection groups).  Last night we began this journey with three other couples.

For so many years Elisabeth and I have experienced small groups in a different way.  As a Youth Pastor I always had a small group of young men that I was leading (and often Elisabeth had a group of gals).  We are both gifted in leadership in this style of small group (discipling a group for years).  The other small groups we have been a part of/led have always been as a part of the launch of a new ministry and not necessarily for the true purpose of small group.  We launched the “youth marrieds” in one church, simply because we needed fellowship with people in our age/stage in life.  This was truly a blessing, but seriously, getting a bunch of young marrieds together with no mentoring is sort of like asking a bunch of four year olds together and tell them to learn to drive…with no adult help.  Though the group did provide great fellowship, wisdom may not have been at a premium?

In a couple churches we began the “college/career” ministry through leading a small group as well.  These were great, we were the mentors in these groups and though it did provide some fellowship, more often than not we were called upon to lead and not receive.

Well, last night, we gathered with these three other couples… two couples in the group are in the “next stage” of life from us (they have grown kids and both couples are in at least their late 40’s to mid 50’s) and then the third couple (besides us) is in a similar stage to us (mid to late 30’s I’d guess… yep, I didn’t ask, see I have matured).  This couple has one young son as well.

What a blessing it is to be a part of a group  where the focus is going to be fellowship and Biblical application.  We are certainly going to be in the Word, but more in response to the teaching of the previous Sunday and how we have interacted with those passages. Our focus will be in prayer, accountability, application and loving God and each other well.  I’m excited how this plays out and how we “do life” together!

A really cool and appropriately challenging goal of ours is to be purposeful in splitting the group next season (we don’t know when that will be, but we think 12-18 months).  We want to see growth in the group and get to the point where our group must become two!  May we love so well that we understand that this is needed  and may we never settle on being a holy huddle!

I’m excited for this new season and am very much looking forward to growing close to these three other couples (and the new folk who will certainly join us in the months to come).

Grace,

Brian

Our March-ing Orders: Prayer

Overwhelmed.

Haiti.  Chile.  Potential tsunami in Hawaii.

Broken relationships, unfulfilled dreams, lost hope, death, sickness, depression, lost jobs, and unrepentant hearts.

Opportunity!

Haiti.  Chile.  No tsunami.

Repentance, new hopes, eternity, God’s provision.

These are the themes I have heard the last few days, even weeks.  Whether the circumstance from our perspective is positive, negative or neither, we are called to pray.  Therefore, I will.  How about you?

I am feeling overwhelmed, but hopeful.  I will pray, will you?  Specifically we’d appreciate your prayers for the teams heading out on YMV’s this summer.  While the spiritual preparation is being taught and lived out in the teens right now, will you pray for the places they are headed.  Over the next 5-6 weeks we will be solidifying the relationships with churches in rural and urban settings to be the temporary harvest field for these teams going on our trips.

I am excited yet apprehensive.  I will pray, will you?  Specifically I’d appreciate your prayers for a few messages I am honored to give in the next week.  Tonight I get to speak at Young Life.  This weekend I am speaking at a Men’s Retreat for Highline Christian Church.  I am very excited to speak God’s Word, the apprehension only comes from the time I want to put into the talks vs. the time available this week to finish the prep.

I am convinced prayer works, but don’t know how. I will pray, will you?  Each year I am literally floored (in praise) by God’s specific answered prayer as I read the blogs from our teams.  It works then, how about now?  My specific requests:

  • I would like each mission team to have a mission location by the end of this month.  Please pray.
  • I am praying that each Youth Pastor is able to testify to the change taking place in their students in their own Jerusalem, and not just on the trip!
  • I am praying that Youth Pastors get their blogs rolling so we can know the specific things to pray about for them.  Check out Youthmark.com and click on missions (or just click here).  We have a new format for the blog, color coded dots indicate how recent a teams last post was.  As you’ll see, not a lot of YP’s have started, pray that many get those started this month!
  • I am praying for the six retreats Youthmark has in April and May to train the (600+) students/staff for missionship (mission lived out anytime/anywhere).  Will you join me in this praise and prayer?

Don’t hesitate to list a specific prayer you may have in the comments.

Though you and I may feel overwhelmed from time to time.  He is not.  May we trust him and become overwhelmed with/by His presence!

Grace,

Brian

If Teens (and church leaders) could see their Youth Pastors

Every week I get to spend time in gatherings of Youth Leaders. The two main networks that I am part of are the Burien (weekly) and Kent/Renton (monthy) networks.

This last week at the Kent/Renton network I was moved to take a quick iPhone pic as I thought of the unity represented in this prayer time.  Though not all are pictured, the picture below represented:

  • American Baptist
  • Converge
  • United Methodist
  • Non-Denom/IFCA
  • Young Life (Parachurch)
  • Nazarene
  • Evangelical Lutheran
  • Youthmark (Parachurch)
  • Calvary Chapel

Multi-Denominational-Prayer

Though theological i dotting and t crossing may happen in some circles, I can say that the folks I get to hang out with at these networks have one thing in mind… stand (kneel) united and rely upon the Lord to open up pathways for us to reach the students in our community for Christ!

Amen?

Amen!

Grace,
Brian

How About You?

Came across a picture on a friends FB page today.

I firmly believe my walk with Jesus is grace-based.  However, I also understand that hearing from Him is sometimes comes in silence (prayer, meditation, on a walk, quietness/stillness)… but more often than not, it comes in Hearing His Word.

Does this picture hit too close to your heart?

I’m going to “listen” right now, as I jump into Colossians.

How are you “hearing” Him right now?

Grace,

Brian

The Aftershock… This Is Now!

Nearly 16 years ago on MLK Day (January 17, 1994), I was awakened in the most unusual way.  CD’s, books and pictures rattled off my overhead shelf and pummeled my body.  I quickly balled up into the fetal position and began praying that this was not the the time. I was experiencing the 6.8 earthquake centered 10 miles away in Northridge.  That was then.

This is now.  A 7.0 earthquake has struck the impoverished country of Haiti.  It is feared that thousands of lives have been lost. Even as I read of the news here in Seattle at my comfy coffee-shop, sipping on my nice warm sugar-free hazelnut flavored coffee; I hear the TV blaring in the background.  Want to know what they’re saying?

Was Simon off his rocker?  What will happen to Conan or Jay?  Was Sarah Palin good on O’Reilly? This is here.

What about there? It is easy to dismiss.  It is simple for me to read the news and then move on with my day. What are they (Haitians) doing today?  They are picking up the pieces (literally), mourning the losses; searching for and confirming even more loss.  Wishing it never happened.

I don’t remember going to bed on January 16, 1994, but I certainly can remember my feelings mid-morning on January 17, 1994.  Reports were coming in about all the damage and death.  We, in California, were all desperately trying to get in touch with our loved ones to let them know that we were alive.  I remember thinking, “it could have easily been a lot worse.”  The reality is, it could have.  Fortunately the fact that it was a holiday (and the freeways were not busy) and modern architecture in Southern California probably spared millions of lives.  Architecture they don’t have in Haiti.  That was then.

rescue workers preparing to help in the recovery... how are we rescue workers?

What about tomorrow? We don’t know it is coming.  I know that for the next few weeks we will hear about how to help the Haitians by giving to the Red Cross, World Concern, World Vision and our friends at Samaritan’s Purse.  You should really consider giving.  However, a greater emergency is looming that needs your attention as well.  We don’t know when the “big one” is going to hit your neighborhood.  Whether it is an earthquake, tsunami, hurricane, flood, cancer, car accident or the return of Christ, we simply don’t know about tomorrow.  But one thing we do know… eternity is on the horizon.  Scripture says, “every knee will bow, every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”  The issue, however, is will every person proclaiming that phrase be ushered into an eternity with Jesus?  This is coming.

This is now. Christians, we don’t know when the “big one” (or the big “ONE”) is coming.  However, we can help the emergency not seem as frantic by preparing our neighbors now.  Christ-followers, we are called “ambassadors” (one who speaks for his/her sovereign).  We are called to “make disciples,” (a follower of his/her teacher, in our case, Christ)  and we are called his “witness” (one who testifies for his/her Lord). As the dust begins to clear in Haiti, surviving neighbors and loved ones will begin to contemplate where the fallen are for eternity.  Many will assume that because he or she was “a good person” that they are in Heaven. The Bible teaches this is simply not true. However, scores of Christians are going to wish they really knew for sure that his or her neighbor is in Heaven.  They are going to wish they had one more opportunity to share about Jesus.

We have that opportunity RIGHT NOW with our neighbors, co-workers, friends and loved ones.  This is right now!

Praying for the relief work, follow-up and evangelism that is to take place in Haiti (please do this as well), but I am sensing even a greater call to pray for my work and your work and our follow-up here and now!  If you do not know Jesus and would like to know for sure that you will have an eternity with Him, don’t hesitate to get in touch with me (brian[at]youthmark[dot]com).

Grace,
Brian

Engaging the iCulture

The iPod.

The iPhone.

iTunes.

iEtc.  (okay, made that one up)…

We live in a high-paced, selfish society.  A culture that typically puts “i” first.   Well, tomorrow “i” have the opportunity to present a message entitled, “Engaging the iCulture.”  My hope is to put Christ first in everything that is said.  The passage is 2 Cor. 5:17-21.

If you live in the greater “East Hill” area (Kent/Renton/Maple Valley/Auburn) and don’t have a church you call “home,” I’d love to have you come check out Faith tomorrow.  Services at 9 and 10:45.

Regardless of your attendance… if you are in Christ, you are new Creation called to be an ambassador of/for Christ, called to reach this iCulture!  Let’s do it! Amen?

Grace,
Brian

No Mundane Monday

The ear buds are in place.

Venti drip with sugar-free Hazelnut on my right.

Hillsong United leading me in praise.

I’m ready to get back to the final few days on this major project (only a few days behind).

Mondays can be a downer for some, not for me.  I’m excited about today.  I’m starting it by talking to my friend, Jesus.  I’ll end it the same way and I hope to spend the majority of the day with Him as well.  In fact, I’m going to spend most of the day writing about Him. Yesterday I was afforded the opportunity to chat about Him and what He is doing in my life and the lives of others around me.  Our new Lead Pastor, John, asked me to help him with the teaching time at church by telling three stories to help illustrate three of his four points in the sermon (if you want to hear it, click here). After Church the Aaby family got to go out with some other good friends who love Jesus too (do you think Jesus loves Mexican food as much as we do?  I think Si!).  In the evening our family got together for our Sunday night Advent time… know who we talked about and to?  Yep, Jesus! Sunday was fantastic.

Perhaps your Mundane Monday can be traded for a Marvelous Monday with Jesus.  Give the day to Him, ask Him to do wonderful things in, to and through you. I’m praying right now for you…

“Jesus, each person that comes across these words today, if they know You and have a relationship with You I pray that they would experience Your love and grace in marvelous ways today.  I pray they’d be bold for You as well.  Praying that they will encounter many people who do not know about You yet.  Perhaps you’ve placed these Christians in the lives of the unbelieving for a reason?  Jesus, cause them to enter relationship with those who do not know you.  Cause them to WANT to say something in a loving way.  Cause them to be like You…

“And Jesus, if there happens to be some friends who come across this blog who do not know the freedom and forgiveness that you grant, I pray for these friends. I pray they would ask me or another Christian about your grace.  I pray they would experience the forgiveness of their sins.  I pray they would come to know you as Lord and Savior… Amen.”

Have a marvelous Monday!  Spend it with Jesus and you will!

Grace,
Brian

Got 39 minutes?

Okay, so I just found something funny online… it is my first recorded sermon…

I believe it is only my second or third sermon ever to big people (I believe I had preached once or twice at my church, but they weren’t recording sermons yet).

So, if you have 39 minutes to hear me as a 22 year-old college senior speaking at Chapel, have at it.  In my own opinion, it’s not bad, certainly not great, but overall, decent.

Here it is.

The MP3 was taken off a tape… so it has a bit of a “Chipmunk” sound too it (I talk a little higher and faster than I really sound).

Grace,
Brian

Covering the Writing!

With this post I want to “rally the troops”  Are you willing to be one of troops?  I hope so, please comment at the end!

I know that God delights in our prayers and I am hoping He will delight in your prayers on behalf of the writings for the training manuals, devotionals and foll0w-thru materials Youthmark will produce for the 2010 YMV’s.

One MAJOR area of emphasis we place on the training side of the mission trip is prayer.  We encourage each participant to have 20+ prayer partners.  Well, I’m looking for the same as I endeavor to get the majority of the writings completed for the 2010 YMV season in the next three weeks.  Will you cover a day (or more) in prayer?  There is no expectation as to what “covering” looks like, you make your prayer time what you want it to be for that day/those days.

storyFrom November 17-December 8, I plan to really “go for it” to get each of the below listed publications finished (they are all in various stages of completion).

  • Story: The Mission Prep Workbook. This is the training workbook for each participant, using Acts 6-13 as the guiding section of Scripture.
  • Partnerships.  This is a new publication for Youthmark, this is a complete guide to mission support (prayer and financial).
  • The Leaders Guide 2010. This notebook is the Youth Leaders Guide to all things Admin and Leadership for the 2010 YMV’s.

threebooksOn the Radar: As soon as each of the above are completed we turn our attention to RoadGrip, HomeBase and Merge for 2010.

How Can You Partner?

Will you sign up to be a primary prayer partner for any of the following days?  I will update the list as folk commit to praying.  In committing to pray for one (or more) of the days, I will do my best to shoot you a specific prayer request for that day (clueing you in on the specific project I am working on that day).  I have listed the weekend days as well because at times I will be writing, but primarily I will have the people signed up for these days praying for my time with my family.

You can “sign up” by either commenting on this post, shooting me a FB message or an email (brian{at}youthmark{dot}com). I will update the list of people with first names only.    When you comment on the blog I have access to your email address you listed to register a comment (so, no need to list your email in a comment).  Don’t hesitate to sign up for a day already taken, I want multiples!

I hope to get as many people covering the writing, as I believe through His Word and by His Spirit there is a mighty work of God in store for the participants! I want you to be a part of that process!

Prayer Coverings For Each Day:

Tuesday, Nov. 17: Aimee, Stephen

Wednesday, Nov. 18: Aimee, Stephen

Thursday, Nov. 19: Aimee, Stephen

Friday, Nov. 20: Micah & Rebecca, Stephen

Saturday, Nov. 21: Christie, Stephen

Sunday, Nov. 22: Michelle, Stephen

Monday, Nov. 23: Michelle, Stephen

Tuesday, Nov. 24: Michelle, Matt

Wednesday, Nov. 25: Brad

Thursday, Nov. 26 (Thanksgiving): Weston

Friday, Nov. 27: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Nov. 28: Christie

Sunday, Nov. 29: Wes

Monday, Nov. 30: Wes

Tuesday, Dec. 1: Ricky

Wednesday, Dec. 2: Brad

Thursday, Dec. 3: Ricky

Friday, Dec. 4: Micah & Rebecca

Saturday, Dec. 5: Maureen

Sunday, Dec. 6: Maureen, Rachel

Monday, Dec. 7: Gene, Rachel

Tuesday, Dec. 8: Gene, Rachel

I’ll keep updating as people sign up.  Don’t hesitate to sign up for more than one day.  I’ll shoot an email to you on the day(s) you signed up, or the evening before your date.

Grace,
Brian

Encouragement from the Young

Got a very nice Facebook message yesterday…

It was in an instant message:

“Thank you very much…”

to which I replied… “thank you very much?”

“ya ever since i did the youthmark books i learned more about God and Jesus and now instead of almost falling asleep in church i stay awake and im closer than ever to God”  He went on, “and just reading the Merge and reading the bible it has helped a lot”

You’re welcome Sam!

Praise God for Sam and his encouragement, may many others be found faithful to reading and responding to His word.

Grace,
Brian