In times of war, representatives from both sides come together to negotiate.
Treaties are signed.
Grace,
Brian
Whew, I knew you worried that my blogging hiatus would extend over two Tuesdays… Fret no longer, I’m back for the final Top 5 Tuesday of 2009.
As I prepare for preaching this coming Sunday, I have been listening to a variety of tunes as I study the Word. As my iTunes “Genius” plays random selections from my playlist I have found myself worshipping in song and study, a pretty sweet combo! Anyway, it gave me a top 5 idea… My top 5 songs I enjoyed singing in worship settings this last year.
The Criteria… these are all songs that I have sung in worship services this year. I also included a “preview” of one that I think will make a similar list next year, because I plan on having Joe Poppino lead it at our Spring Retreats this year (I have yet to hear it done live in a service so I can’t include it in this top 5).
This is a list you may want to come back to a few times today, listen to one or two songs and then come back later; I linked them all through Youtube.
Without further ado… the list!
Sneak Peak at 2010: Hillsong United’s King of All Days. I’m listening to this one 2-3 times a day right now, better slow down before I get tired of it!
Honorable Mentions: I have seen him live and he made the top 5 as well, but Charlie Hall’s Center makes the HM list with ease. Great concept/calling! In addition, Hillsong United’s The Stand. This done in conjunction with Mighty To Save is quite the combo!
Five: Jeremy Riddle’s Sweetly Broken. Reflective, contemplative and certainly a call to a gracious life.
Four: Kristian Stanfill’s Jesus Paid it All. Yep, that old hymn with a new build up and chorus. The old-hymn, reminding us of the new life we have because of His death!
Three: Charlie Hall’s All We Need. Though this is a few years old, I had never heard it until the end of 2008 (at a winter retreat I was speaking at). Pretty simple message, catchy tune.
Two: Tim Hughes’ God of Justice. This was one of our closing songs at the retreats and is super-motivating in terms of the call, “we must go.” What an honor to be called by God to share the most wonderful news ever!
One: Hillsong United’s Mighty To Save. It was certainly done a lot at churches and to be honest I might be a little tired of it right now, but really, over the course of the year, it stands out as the one that really caused me to think, pray, worship and drew me to His Word!
What do you think? You have some songs that should make our “playlist” for 2010?
Grace,
Brian
As my writing deadline (Dec. 15) quickly approached and just as quickly appeared in my rear-view mirror, I began to cut out some “extras” in my life. One of these was biking. From Dec. 4 to Dec. 23 I did not ride my bike at all.
Last Thursday, Dec. 24 I jumped back on my bike with the intent of easing back into shape. My normal 13.5 mile jaunt would be cut down to approximately four, so that I could slowly get back into shape without hurting my body. This was my intent.
It has been a long while since I preached in a church. I’ve had ample opportunities to speak (camps, Young Life, retreats, guest speaking at Youth Groups and several Youthmark functions); however, filling the pulpit is different.
Back to the biking. With the first hill, I could already feel the effects of having not biked for three weeks. Not only did the scale proclaim the increase in weight, my legs and lungs were complaining with each push of the pedal. By the time I reached the one-mile mark, I was ready to turn around and be satisfied with a two re-entry ride. However, I pressed on.
About a month ago our new Lead Pastor at Faith called me and asked me to consider preaching on January 3, 2010. What an honor. While serving at Boulevard Park I preached about once month, so it really became part of my routine. Every now and then I have missed that part of the routine.
Last Thursday, on the ride, I kept going and the muscles kept aching. For some reason the scenery wasn’t as pretty, the trail seemed longer and everything appeared to be moving a lot slower…hmm, wonder why? At the next most natural stopping point (two miles into the ride) I seriously considered turning around, namely because I was starting to feel a little queazy. However, I didn’t stop, I kept going.
As I approached the 3 mile mark I was feeling rather gross, but had only one big hill to climb to reach my real goal; well that “gross feeling” paled in comparison to the feeling I had by the time I reached the top. Be proud, I did hold back and never did toss my cookies. Though the ride back was slow, I did make it 6.25 miles… 1/2 of my normal “in shape” ride.
I’m taking a different approach with preaching. Though I may not be “in shape” to preach, having not filled a pulpit in over a year. I’m easing in. Within the hour I’ll be done with my outline; I’ve been studying consistently and will continue to throughout the week. I don’t feel winded, I don’t feel achy and I am looking forward to that next hill.
I’m back on the bike (each ride feeling stronger), and now I get to climb back on the proverbial pulpit bike! Can’t wait for Sunday!
Grace,
Brian
Thought this would be a fun comparison…
Pics from Christmas Day last year compared to similar pics this year…
Grace,
Brian
As I said in a previous post, I love/hate discipline.
About a week ago I got to the point where I was so frustrated with my circumstances. I had a self-imposed (and somewhat Publishing-imposed) Dec. 15 deadline for Story, the new Mission Prep Workbook. Well, that date quickly passed me by and I was still nowhere near the finish line on Story.
As I read the Scriptures I see time after time where man (or woman), hide and blame. Hide from God or others we’ve offended/sinned against and then blame others for our sin/circumstance. This has been my temptation (and unfortunately my fallback). There are reasons I didn’t get the writing done on time. Legit places for me to place my blame and hide from my own shame. However, the bottom line is this: I will continue to be sinned against. I will continue to have circumstances get in the way of my own agenda. And the flip side is unfortunately true as well–I will continue to sin against others and mess up the agenda for someone else (a quick reading of Romans 6-8 will tell you that this is not an excuse to keep on sinning).
Pride stinks. At the risk of offending others, I’ll say it. Pride Sucks. However, I am full of it. (yes, you have known that I was “full of it”), so much so, that instead of writing in that post, “because I missed my writing deadline,” I said, “I have to finish some ‘projects.'” How silly. Was I trying to fool myself? Ha.
So, rather than sulking, I bunkered down and did what I could to compete the process of the writing. I did my best to strip back everything that was not necessary so that I could concentrate on 3 things: God, Family and Work. Biking, blogging, Facebook time, Fantasy Hoops and watching ballgames… GONE. More time in prayer, study, prioritizing (as best I could) time with family and disciplined time of writing became my priorities. Not to say that these three aren’t still my priority, they still are, however the margin for “others” returns a bit now. This excites me.
Side Note: My family is such a blessing to me. They are/were so supportive of me in this time of completion. A special “shout out” to Elisabeth is due. She carried/carries so much of the load during this time. She is such a supportive Mommy to the kids and wife to me! I love you Elisabeth, I am truly thankful to God for you!
The content of Story is now complete (yesterday at noon). There is still much to do for the completion of the total project, but I will now take a good day and half to not do much on it!
Today I look forward to the following:
Blog post: Check
Start Christmas shopping: leaving as I hit “Publish” on this.
Bike Ride: First one in 3 weeks… (good news, only 4 pounds heavier than I was at the beginning of December)
Lots and lots of Family Time!!!!!!
Christmas Eve service!… If you don’t have a church to attend, hit me up, we’ll take you with us to ours!
I do love/hate discipline…And it’s fair to say, I hate Pride!
Stocking stuffers, here I come!
Grace,
Brian
I’ll get back to our regular schedule blogging and explain my “break” tomorrow… but for now…
Get out your aluminum pole.
Write out your grievances.
Prepare for the feats of strength!
That’s right, it’s December 23!
It’s Festivus for the Rest of Us!
“No Bagel, no bagel, no bagel”
And so you know, as a holiday gift, I did make a donation in
each of your names to “The Human Fund” ~ Money for People.
Happy Festivus to Everyone! (for more information on this, click here)
Grace,
Brian
There are a few things in my life that I have let slide in the last few weeks because of other areas dominating my time.
Before things get too out-of-control, I am making a total effort to finish a few projects that simply have to get done before I get back to some things I want in my life…
The things that will be scratched for the next few days:
So, check back in a few days and hopefully I’ll be back to the blog, but for now, enjoy a short-break.
I’d really appreciate your prayers over the next few days.
Grace,
Brian
It finally happened. Parenthood has caught up with us. We knew it would. To be honest, I’m surprised it has taken this long.
Our daughters go to two different schools right now. Audrey is at a school that only has p/k and Kindergarten. Halle is in a K-8 school. Well, they both have Christmas Programs scheduled for the EXACT SAME TIME!
This is the first time I can remember two different things our kids have been involved with has divided the family in terms of attendance.
So, the family splits for the evening…
Christmas programs should unite, not divide!.
Let’s not even get into the “why did Mommy go to her concert and not mine?” question.
Grace,
Brian
GM has developed one of the first “electric” cars. The technology seems pretty cool. It is due out in 2010.
However, GM also developed the following. It should have never come out.
(note: it is worth your laughter/bewilderment for the next two minutes)
Your American tax dollars (remember the bailout) at work!
Grace,
Brian
I’ve been thinking about this post for awhile, but no matter how I word it it has seemed awkward and weird to rank friendships. So, as you read this, please don’t see this as a ranking of my friends. If you do see it that way and comment on it as such, I’ll quickly create a new list of my top 5 enemies, and put you on it! Ha.
The last 18 months have been quite exciting, I’m so thankful to God for the people he has had me interact with, and a number of those interactions have led to friendship and a lot of my previous acquaintances or loose friendships have turned into bona fide friendships.
The Criteria: I am listing my top five friendships that have been created by my role with Youthmark, or at minimum the acquaintanceships that have moved to genuine friendships because of the role. My apologies in advance to the scores of people who should be on the list that I was too lame to remember right now…(there, I just revealed my fear in creating this list)…
Without further ado, the list.
Honorable Mentions: This is the list that could go on forever, seeing as how there are plenty of Youth Pastors whom I now consider friends that I had not even met 18 months ago. I think of guys like Rob in TX whom I just think the world of. Oh, who could forget Jimmy in Hawaii? Mike and Wes here in Western WA or how about Josh in CA? This guy was so much fun to scout the Gulf with. I could include a ton of people that I am forming friendships with as well, but the lines between Youthmark and networking begin to get skewed…

My wife has said, "Alan looks and sounds like a younger, skinnier Mark Driscoll" Good thing he works at Mars Hill!
Four: Alan. Though Alan has not done a YMV with me… yet, he was one of the first guys I got to sit with last year to begin to share the vision. In a sense he was one of my first “cold calls.” We met for coffee and he was going through… well, a lot at his church and in life at the time. We spent a lot of time talking about life and ministry before a family emergency called him away. Like I said, we haven’t connected on a Youthmark level yet, but God has blessed me and us (the Aabys) with new friends. We have gotten together a couple times as couples; Alan’s wife Sarah is a sweetheart and we look forward to our next time together with them.
Three: Joe. Though I had met him at a camp that I was the speaker for and he was the worship leader, our friendship has really formed through the Youthmark Missions Spring Retreats. It is a privilege to have Joe secured for all seven of the Spring Retreats in the Spring of 2010. He is a gifted worship leader who has the ability to hear the Spirit moving and not get in the way. Beyond worship leading, he is a great daddy and husband. I look forward to forming a friendship with more of his family–I know his Dad, a great man of God too! Joe was also one of two MAJOR inspirations for me getting in shape. Joe has lost a lot of weight in the last year… and has yet to find it. I’m hoping mine can’t be found either!
Two: Jess. Don’t know if I can be friends with Jess anymore, he has left Youth Ministry and become a Senior Pastor. I know, what was he thinking? Well, the good news, he has moved from Snohomish to Renton. I may have lost him in terms of the direct relationship with Youthmark for a season, but I now get to office with him (we are often at the same coffee shop). He and Alisha (and kids) live just a few minutes away; may the family times begin! Jess is big encouragement, a man of God who believes in prayer! I love that and find it a blessing/privilege to pray for him. Jess and I have known each other for a few years, but it was his “Lead” role with Youthmark that really put us into our growing friendship.
One: Aaron. We’ve been running in the same Youth Ministry circles for about 10 years. The first eight-and-a-half we did a pretty good job of knowing of each other more than we knew each other. That’s too bad, we have a lot of catching up to do now. This is a man of God whom I have much respect for. First, I love his honesty that is so mixed with quick wit–quite simply, Aaron can go from dead-serious to dropping in a good one-liner that you won’t get until you’re at home on your couch and you finally get it! I love that. He is a man who loves his family (he and Heather have six great kids). He is a guy who loves his work and is a great Youth Pastor. When I say great, understand I mean it. I have seen a lot of Youth Pastors, Aaron is in the top 5% for sure! Praise God. Aaron is a faithful friend, not a week goes by without a word of encouragement or a text of humor! We share life together, this is fun. Oh, and last, he is one of Youthmark’s biggest fans. Seriously, he’s like 6’4″.
I love what Youthmark has afforded me in terms of friendships. It seemed a little silly to “rank” these friendships, and that was not the point at all, the point was to be encouraged and to be encouraged by these friendships and many others!
Hebrews tells us to encourage one another all the more as we see the day approaching. These are all people who encourage me greatly. Who is encouraging you? Who are you encouraging?
Grace,
Brian