Faith Foundations: The Big “But”

No worries, I didn’t misspell anything and I’m not trying to be crass… The big “but” shows up in the passage below.

As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. ~Eph. 1:1-6

I can’t speak for you, but I see poor parenting all the time.  Go to the mall, observe at a park or (especially), turn on a sitcom.  Now, poor parenting in my eyes may not be poor parenting in the eyes of another… but I see intentional and consistent shaming as poor.  With that being said, I am sure there are times I am quite the hypocrite and blind to the fact that I have just done it. 

I love this passage in Ephesians 1:1-6, it is the opposite of shaming to me… Paul points out the transgressions of the past, he identifies the wretched path they used to walk, he names their former identity…

…wait for it…

… here it comes…

BUT!

But, he exclaims to the Ephesian believer and to us, you are different.  He says, “But you aren’t these things anymore.” “But you walk that path no longer.” “But you have been redeemed through grace.”

Do we live in light of the big but?  Do we realized we no longer need to follow our patterns of the past.  I for one need this reminder.  It is so easy to go back to bad choices, stay on the wide road because it is easier and ignore the grace in front of me.  The foundation of my faith must be grounded in grace.

Embrace grace today!

Grace,
Brian

First Deadline: November 1 (PRAY)

For those who are supporting Youthmark through Prayer, I have a 15 Day Prayer Request!
Literally, I’d love for you to pray specifically for each of the next 15 days as the first wave of Youth Leaders sign up for the missions. Pray that those whom are supposed to go this summer will get the registrations turned in!  Teams signing up by November 1 will take full advantage of the YMV strategy (they will get the Youth Pastor/Spouse Retreat for November 10-11).

Thanks for your prayers!  Can’t wait to see the teammates God brings to Youthmark!

Grace,

Brian

Family Fun

Last weekend was beautiful in Seattle.  We took advantage of it by doing one of our fall traditions with the kids–The Pumpkin Patch!  We found a very cute farm near our house and took to the fields.  Each of the kids got their own pumpkin, Halle even carried hers off the field!

Grace,
Brian

Wow, How Cool!

So, WordPress just added a new feature that I will have WAY too much fun with!  It is a polling feature on the blog.  So, now I can get some responses from my readership (anonymous) and you don’t even need to comment, you simply need to “click.” 

So, to kick-off my first blog-poll let’s find out something about my audience:

Thanks for participating!

Grace,
Brian

Speaking Up North

Very excited to be up in Snohomish right now.  Jess is one of the Youth Pastors doing a mission trip through Youthmark this summer.  In fact, Jess is one of my “Lead Team” members.  I’ll probably post about that in the next couple weeks.

Anyway, Jess is promoting the mission trip to Montana tonight and asked if I’d bring a student up to share a testimony.  This quickly changed to him inviting not only a student, but asking if I’d share the message… I’m quite excited to bring the Word and promote the mission!  So, Ricky and I are up in Snohomish now, sitting at the Sno-Bucks and will probably do a little discipleship (we’re studying Colossians together), do some final prep for sharing tonight and take in a little coffee and tea.  Pray for us if you are reading this sometime Wednesday afternoon/evening!

Grace,
Brian

Contract Fulfilled

Several years ago I made an agreement with one of my young sophomores in high school.  Kevin had walked into a party wearing an old yellow polo-type shirt.  It was one he had purchased at a consignment store to use on a summer mission as a scrubby shirt to paint or do work in.  Even as a sophomore in high 

A sample Goldenboy Shirt

A sample Goldenboy Shirt

school the shirt was already starting to show a little midriff (not a good look; especially for a guy).  Kevin, knowing he was dressed a little strange for this party said, “check out my shirt Brian!”  For some reason, my immediate response, “Kev, if you wear that shirt everyday to school this year, I’ll take you on an all-expense paid trip to Disneyland.”

Long story short… Goldenboy (aka Kevin) took the challenge and completed it.  I fulfilled my duty by taking him to Disneyland as well!  I’ll have to share the whole story later because it included a presidential campaign, huge youth group growth, a 3 minute piece on the Local news and a call from The Tonight Show with an invite to be on Jay’s show!

Fast forward several years, I’m the new guy at Boulevard Park and I meet one of my brand-new Freshmen guys, Frankie.  Frankie, as a frosh, looked a little like Pedro from Napoleon Dynamite–complete with the puberty produced mustache!  So, first time I met Frankie I stated, “Frankie, if you don’t shave all the way through your graduation day, I’ll take you on an all expense paid trip to Ruth’s Chris Steak House (yes, I learned my lesson in terms of the expense of a prize).

Frankie on our Lifeboat trip to AZ

Frankie on our Lifeboat trip to AZ

Long story short, Frankie graduated in June, and last night we enjoyed Ruth’s Chris!  Frankie has since shaved and now looks younger than he did the day I met him.  Great time, great food and contract fulfilled!

By the way, these were never “bets,” they were all “Christian Agreements!

 

Grace,

Brian

Before and After

Before:

small gap

small gap

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

After:

LARGE GAP

LARGE GAP

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Congratulations to Halle for losing her first upper tooth (and third tooth total)!  She’s pretty excited, can you tell?

Yeth, she ith very eckthited!

Yeth, she ith very eckthited!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks for sharing in our family memories!

Grace,
Brian

Faith Foundations: Encouragement

As I stated last week, I would like to start my week blogging about “Faith Foundations.”  This morning I arrived early to Cutter’s Point Coffee on the South Hill of Puyallup to meet with a Youth Pastor, Troy.  Whereas, last week, I felt the overwhelming need to be prayed for (so that was the subject of my first Faith Foundation) today, I was praising God for the opportunities for fellowship I knew I was going to receive today.  I just had no idea I was going to be blessed with it right away!

I knew I was going to be meeting with the YMAP (Youth Ministry Apprenticeship Program) Team (we like “team” better than “board”).  Some of my older friends in youth ministry are part of this team.  It is always encouraging to sit with them.  Then later tonight Elisabeth and I are going out to dinner with Marc and Debbie Gronholz, long time friends (and my most recent Sr. Pastor).  I knew today was going to have a “refuge” feel to it and I was excited for that!

But, my meeting with Troy was an amazing time of encouragement, fellowship, and mutual “spurring.” 

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

Hebrews 10:24-25 is one of my favorite passages.  Troy was able to speak to, what he called, “failure” in networking as a Youth Pastor.  I hope our two hours together will spur him on toward doing it more.  He is a little bit older than the average youth pastor and has much wisdom to pass on to some of the younger (and even older) YP’s.  There was no “failure” that I could see, he certainly gave me food for thought! He spurred me in the area of insights into a couple passages in Acts.  Some great stuff as we both are drawn to that book.  I loved his take on a couple passages!

I see the day approaching!  Do you?  Let’s be quick to encourage other believers, but let’s also be quick to live it out among the lost!  The day is quickly approaching and many do not see it coming; and how will they know unless we tell them?  Brothers and sisters, keep meeting together (it is a faith foundation), but may we also be quick to depart and do the work as well (serve, share and support… very “pastor-like” with the three S’s huh?)!

Grace,
Brian

YMV Teammates!

One of the things I’m most looking forward to about the Youthmark Mission Venture strategy is the sense of Team!  I’m not recruiting “clients” (Youth Leaders and Youth Groups joining the trips), I really am inviting, “teammates!” In this team mindset, I look forward to seeing the gifts and talents of each person bring Glory to His name.  The Youth Pastor/Spouse Retreat, two spring retreats and the Launch/Debrief weekends of the YMV’s will have a “team leadership” approach.

I’m excited to see what sort of Gifts the Lord brings to the table.  One person (and set of gifts) I know of already is Joe Monto.  A friend of mine and a Youth Pastor at Calvary Chapel South.  I can’t wait to see Joe inviting students to the foot of the cross through worship/song!  Here’s an original he wrote that I hope he will teach us!

Can’t wait to see the other gifts and talents He brings through each one of the staff and students joining us this year!

Grace,
Brian